What Attracts Women To Men?
Updated November 25, 2019
Reviewer Lauren Guilbeault
If you're a man who's looking to find the right woman, you might be wondering just what it is that seems to attract them. After all, you want to be the type of man that someone wants to be with, right? So you're curious about what it is that makes certain men so attractive to a woman. Well, it's not all about looks or money or any of the other things that you may have heard. It's about several things inside of the person, and becoming the right type of man doesn't have to be as difficult as you might think.
This is one thing that you may not be able to control for yourself completely, but it's going to be something you can work on. Reading, going to school and more will help to make you more intelligent, and they're going to help you sound that way when talking to your next date. You don't need to have a high IQ (though that can also help). You just need to make sure that you stay informed about things that are happening around you. These things are going to make sure you and your partner have things to talk about and that you can come up with your own coherent conversations.
The way that you hold yourself is quite important when it comes to the way a woman or anyone looks at you. After all, if you seem to slouch a lot it shows that you're not confident. This can make you seem like less of a 'catch' for women around you. Standing up straight, holding yourself upright and more are going to help you look confident and are going to make sure that any potential date looks at you in a completely different way. They're going to see you as someone that knows who they are and who trusts themselves as well.
You don't have to have any kind of religious belief. What we're talking about here is just having your own beliefs about things in your life. It means having a stance on some of the issues that are going on in the world and being firm in those things. If you're too wishy-washy about your opinions it could turn women off. They want someone who has a strong sense of what they think and feels, even if those thoughts are different from their own. If you tend to falter on your opinions or you change your opinions to match what they want every time (at least without a good discussion and reason).
You need to be attentive to your date. That means talking to them, paying attention to them when you're together and taking an interest in their life as well. You want to make sure that you pay attention to things that they tell you and that you're able to remember different things about them that you can ask about. These are things that are going to show them that they are important to you and that's going to be an important step when you start actually to carry on a relationship with that other person.
You need to be passionate about something. Keep in mind that passion doesn't have to refer to the intimacy of any kind. It can refer to a strong passion for a specific hobby or a passion for some kind of collection, for example. If you're very passionate about cars or about your record collection that's going to show. Having something that you find that important to you or finding something that you can get excited about is going to be a great way to show them your personality. After all, you want to make sure that they can see who you are.
Being confident is entirely different from being arrogant. If you're confident, it means that you believe in yourself and that you are going to be stronger in the things that you do. If you have confidence it means you're going to stay firm on your beliefs (as mentioned above), but that's not all. You're also going to give off the impression that they can count on you and believe that you will be there for them. They're going to feel that you are trustworthy and you're going to feel stronger about your strengths and what you're able to do for yourself and others.
Excitement About Life
You should be happy and excited about life. That's not to say that someone who is depressed can't find a woman. Individuals who are suffering from depression may not have the common levels of excitement about life, but in general, you must have some level of this if you're looking to start dating. Even a small amount of zest for life or appreciation for life is going to make an impression on someone that you meet. When you're working on your depression you're going to make an impact on this, so keep working toward it and don't feel like you can't find someone just because you're working through depression.
Fun And Spontaneity
Everyone wants to have some fun, so make some time for it in your own life. It doesn't matter what type of fun you want to have. The important thing is to make sure you enjoy your time and that you're spending time with them doing something fun. It's going to take some time (maybe) to find something that you both enjoy, but women like a man that wants to do something fun every so often and who might be at least a little bit spontaneous with ideas for how to have fun or what to do within the relationship.
A healthy appearance doesn't mean that you have to be slim or that you have to be built. You need to show that you take care of yourself. This means things like trimming your nails, cutting your hair, so it's neat and keeping a healthy color to your skin. These are each thing that anyone can do, and they're going to show your potential partner that you care about yourself and that you take pride in your appearance. These things can be visible no matter what your weight, your height, your fitness level and more. All of these things show your potential as a healthy and positive partner in their life.
You must be honest with your potential partner. No matter what happens, you're going to want them to be open and honest with you, so make sure that you're doing the same. That's how they're going to know that they can trust you and it's how they're going to know that you are someone who won't hurt them. It shows that you won't lie to hide something you've done wrong. So be honest about the little things, right from the start, and you'll be able to show them that they can trust you all the way along and throughout the entire relationships.
Relationships shouldn't be quite too calm and relaxed. Though you want to have a fun relationship that's not full of arguments or disagreements, there does need to be an element of challenge to things. You want to make sure that you're creating a relationship that's a bit more balanced between the fun and a bit of a challenge or a little bit of the difficult aspects. It's going to make for a more exciting time for you and your partner. And excitement is going to be an important part of your relationship. It's going to make you happier over the long haul and keep your relationship going stronger.
For those who are looking for a little bit of help with their relationship or with trying to create a stronger relationship, these tips and traits are going to make a big difference. But maybe you're still struggling with how you're going to do these things or what they're going to mean for your life. If that's the case, then getting professional help may be able to get you on the right path to discovering and understanding yourself. Talking with a mental health professional may help you to understand what traits you're good at and which ones you might need to work on.
ReGain can help you to learn more about yourself and to work on your ability to be a good partner. No matter what you're going through, you're going to find some benefits working with a mental health professional who can understand you and show the level of compassion you're looking for. Even better, you're going to have a therapist that you can talk with without having to leave your own home. Talking with someone and making sure you can improve yourself in the best ways is going to make it easier for you to meet the woman of your dreams and to start building the life you've always wanted.