How Much Is A Good Relationship Counseling Price?

By Dylan Buckley|Updated June 21, 2022
CheckedMedically Reviewed By Cessel Boyd-Lewis, LCMHC

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Maybe the first reaction to asking about relationship counseling price is, "Does it matter?" After all, how can you put a price tag on a successful marriage? Isn't protecting your future worth some investment?

Sure, in theory, we live in challenging times, and not all couples have large savings accounts or high incomes. Some people are barely getting by on a week-to-week paycheck. Budgeting is essential, so they do not necessarily look for the best doctor or the most qualified counselor. Instead, they want someone professional, trained, trustworthy, and still within affordable pricing.

Unfortunately, many in-office counselors charge top dollar, and that's per session. According to some surveys, couples counseling can cost between 90 and 150 dollars per 45-minute session. Now obviously, there is no standardized price, and some doctors or therapists may provide a discount, particularly if they are part of a local organization or state facility. However, it does paint a grim picture of expensive investment and will only show benefits in the long term.

An Analysis Of Relationship Counseling Price Factors: What Should I Be Paying?

Because there are so many varying prices for counseling therapy on the market, the question is not what the standard price is but what you should be paying for it and what factors affect these prices. This vital information will allow you to determine better how you can best afford couples counseling.

Here are some of the most common factors that play into overall counseling prices consist of the following:

The Location Of The Practice

Where you live plays a huge role in how much you can expect to pay for your couples' counseling. Let's say, for example, that you live in a small town somewhere in the middle of the United States. Because you live in a location where the cost of living is lower, you are likely to encounter lower therapy costs. However, if you live in a large, crowded city such as Los Angeles or New York City, the cost of therapy will rise dramatically because living is much higher in these areas than in other places scattered throughout the country. That being said, it is more than possible to find affordable counseling in cities such as these; you have to be aware that you need to expect higher prices going into your counseling search.

The Reputation Or Training Of Your Relationship Counselor

As with any profession, therapists in the early stages of their careers who recently launched or joined a practice will most likely charge less. Even though they have the training and credentials, they may not have the experience or the clientele base that would allow them to charge more since they have not yet built a reputation for themselves. On the other side of the spectrum, couples counselors who have obtained higher degrees and have proven themselves to be effective counselors throughout their extensive career and clientele base can charge more because they can provide evidence of their success.

Packages Offered Vs. Per-Session Rates

The cost of your relationship counselor will also depend entirely on how they choose to price their services. For example, some counselors will only provide counseling and charge per session, while others may decide to offer their services in bundles. When you are allowed to purchase packages of a specific number of sessions at a time, you can receive discounts for your counseling that month, which can be considerably more cost-effective than having to pay per session.

Are Sliding Scales Rates A Possibility?

For counselors who have a high-paying clientele base, sliding scale rates may be a possibility. Sliding scale rates are reduced prices offered to potential clients who may not afford the typical prices set by the counselor. When clients pay sliding scale rates, the counselor will try to readjust the rates for other clients who can afford to pay a bit more so that they can make up the difference. Not every counselor has a sliding scale rate, but it is a factor in pricing for some. (It's important to note here that sliding scales are usually offered on an as-needed basis. If you can afford the services down the line, it is important to try to meet your counselor's price when possible.)

Any Costs Associated With Running A Practice

It would help if you also considered that prices between counselors vary widely due to the various costs to run a practice. For example, a counselor has to worry about paying member fees to state or national organizations, paying their student loans or other education-related expenses, paying for online and offline marketing, paying for their office, and paying for travel and other costs that factor into their business. Also, they have to make sure that they have enough money to pay for their lifestyle. Overall, the cost of running your own therapy business can be expensive, and counselors have to price their services carefully to keep everything balanced.

A Way To Reduce Relationship Counseling Price

To put it simply, you don't want to be paying a significant amount of money for your relationship counseling sessions, especially if your financial issues are one reason why you and your significant other are having problems.

The good news is that there are plenty of ways to reduce these prices so that your relationship counseling is more affordable for you. Let's take a look at a few of these tips…

  1. Don't Be Afraid to Ask For Reduced Rates Or Inquire About Discounts.

Counselors went into their profession for one major reason: to help people. They don't want to turn people away, and they may be able to still take you on even if you can't afford their usual rates. As we stated above, sliding scale rates or other price reductions may be a possibility for you if the counselor offers them. There is also the possibility of discounts being offered if you purchase a package of services instead of individually. You must ask about these potential prices upfront before you begin therapy with a counselor.

  1. Check To See If Your Insurance Covers Couples Therapy

For the most part, you'd be hard-pressed to find an insurance company that would pay for relationship therapy. However, that does not mean that there aren't plans out there that will provide insurance coverage for relationship therapy. They can be tricky to find, but you should ask your current insurance provider if they will reimburse you for your couple's counseling or will pay your counselor directly. If they won't, you can always see if there are other plans available or ways to work around certain limitations to make payment possible.

  1. Work With A Low-Cost Or In-Training Therapist

If money is a major issue and you cannot afford many of the relationship counselors in your area, you still have the option of working with a low-cost, low-income therapist or with one that is still in training. These therapists will cost little to nothing either because of their knowledge of your situation and their willingness to provide services for considerably less or because they are working towards their degree and credentials and need valuable experience. Remember, services that are priced less do not indicate a drop in value.

  1. Find Ways To Supplement Your Therapy At Home

One great way to reduce your total counseling costs is to find ways to work on your relationship at home. This can be achieved by looking for external resources and heavily utilizing what you have learned at therapy regularly. You can then cut down your visits to a certain number of times throughout the week as a way to check up on your progress as you do most of the work out of the office. However, this may only work for couples who are extremely self-motivated and desire success. If you have quite a few conflicts in your relationship and need support, this may not be the best option for you.

  1. You Can Utilize Online Alternatives

In theory, this price could be significantly reduced if clients began paying just for the information they needed rather than pay a recurring bill. This is precisely why online couples therapy has been a growing industry. Online companies like Regain offer live sessions with counselors via text, email, video, and all according to the user's or couple's needs. There are no contracts or an assigned number of sessions. Instead, couples pay for the sessions they need, according to their availability and budget.

On average, users usually request 3-4 short interactions per week since they have specific questions. However, if finances are tight, all they would have to do is cancel the subscription and then re-subscribe if and when they need advice.

Relationship counseling prices can be managed this way as couples can have complete control over their budget while learning the essentials of premarital counseling.

You Don't Pay The Therapist - You Pay For The Advice!

Relationship Counseling Can Be More Beneficial Than You think

Price is just one aspect of the therapy you are receiving. In truth, you should be focusing more on the value of couples therapy than the price you are paying. After all, why would you pay more for a product you need from the store that is less effective than another product that is priced lower? You should only be paying for what you believe to be valuable and helpful for both you and your significant other.

Remember this lesson before entering into any counseling agreement: you are paying for the information, not for a counselor to fix your life. A counselor can give you specific lessons on household management, finances, homemaking skills, and conflict resolution between couples. If you have specific questions about sex, compatibility, money, or family relations, write them down in advance and then ask the counselor for advice. Answers are quick, and this keeps the budget under control.

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