Texting etiquette with someone you are connecting with can be challenging, as many of us let our emotions dictate what we say and how we say it. In the moment, we may forget to take a step back before considering how the message reads to the other person. One of the things we may all agree on is the importance of starting a new day in a positive place. This can include texting bright messages to someone you care for to brighten their day.
Think of how the texting habits of a guy who likes you can improve your outlook almost immediately. Doesn’t it make your day when you hear that ‘ding’ or feel your phone vibrate first thing in the morning and read that, ‘Good morning, Beautiful’ or even simply, ‘Good morning’? Instead of waiting for Prince Charming to come riding by (and trust us, Cinderella’s already tied him down, so you may be waiting a while), let’s consider taking charge of our romantic texting etiquette and be proactive with sexy good morning texts for him. This is a great way to flip the script, catch him off guard, and most importantly, keep you on his mind from the very start of his day. Read on to how sending text messages to him can start his day off with you on his mind.
Text messages can help build and strengthen love
Partners experiencing a love-hate relationship with texting is completely natural. Texting can help make relationships stronger, but it also has the power to tear them apart if not done healthily and positively. When sending your man a sexy text in the morning, be cautious of what you are saying and how he might read it, such as what it implies beneath the surface. Because you cannot hear the intonation in speech or see facial expressions, there is a lot of room for miscommunication and misunderstanding.
To use texting to help build and strengthen your bond, use it as a tool to reinforce positive habits. Texting can be used to customize the way you say hello or good morning to him by making it something personal to your relationship. It is one of the cute ways to say Hi in a text message. For example, if your beau is really into 90s cartoons, you can both start the day with a good morning meme or gif that showcases this personal element. While this may not seem inherently ‘sexy,’ a man will find it sexy that you are taking into consideration something you both love and are starting his day with a thought related to your relationship.
Small, personal messages throughout the day can leave a long-lasting, positive impression. Or you may also message funny things to text a guy to make him laugh. Texting sweet, cute, or loving messages to show him that you are thinking of him and interested in him is a way to make his day better. Sending sexy messages here and there to keep things spicy can also brighten his day, and yours.
Text messages can put a smile on his face
You can start building chemistry with a man through the way you text. Research shows that texting using emoticons or emojis increases perceived playfulness, building social closeness. Romantic messages are sometimes better perceived via text than verbally. You may feel braver to say things via text than in person. When you are verbally leaving a sexy voicemail or talking sexy over the phone, there is more room to feel uncomfortable and self-conscious. When texting or sending sexy emails, you are free to take your time and compose your thoughts exactly the way you want to. When the recipient reads it, he can read it and interpret it however he wants, enhancing the sexiness, allure, and mystery.
What message are you delivering with your good morning text?
Before you decide on what text you are going to send, think about the actual message you are trying to send him. remember that one of the primary motivations for texting is to keep you on his mind. Aside from this, what are you trying to accomplish? Are you looking to be sexy/sexual? Do you intend to arouse him? Are you simply trying to wish a good morning and a good day? Are you looking to be more assertive and forward or subtle and passive? Your message will depend on your intention, so let’s look at some effective good morning texts for him that are guaranteed to have him thinking about you from the moment his eyes open. You’ll be sure to start his day off right, with a smile on his face and with warmth in his heart.
What is a sweet, simple good morning text message?
Good morning handsome/sexy.
Sometimes, the answer is staring you right in the face. It’s never a bad thing to go with a classic, direct good morning. This text is simple and to the point, simply wishing your man a good morning, making him feel special, and putting a smile on his face. Being short, sweet, and simple is also a great option for someone that isn’t necessarily a big morning person. There will not be too much reading or interpreting to do!
Send a meme with your good morning message.
Sometimes, the best message someone gets doesn’t have words at all. You can send a funny or sweet meme to make him smile along with your simple “good morning” message. It can be just enough to send him a to help start his day with a smile on his face, and he’s going to have you to thank. It may also get him to say good morning too and spark a conversation without any pressure from there.
Hello handsome/sexy. I can’t wait to spend some time with you later.
This is a very simple text that you can send him in the morning to make him smile while not being too aggressive or pushy. If you guys have talked about seeing each other sometime soon, or maybe even later that evening, this text will be a nudge that reminds him of your plans. It also might make him feel that you’re thinking of him. The playful wink will allure at a world of possibilities for when you guys meet. He’ll be left thinking about you all day, wondering what fun things you guys may do later. With this text, it’s all in the mystery.
Hello handsome/good morning babe, thinking about you.
While this message may seem very simple, and it is, this is one of those situations where a little goes a long way. This is a very short, non-threatening way to tell a man you’re thinking of him, which by itself is a sexy thought to them, and he’ll be so happy to have made an impression. It’ll be a great start to the day.
Hey, I was thinking about you and couldn’t stop smiling. I hope you have a great day.
Letting him know that he’s made an impression on you will give him a serious boost of confidence, which is a great feeling first thing in the morning. He’ll leave for work feeling accomplished, cared for, appreciated, and looking forward to being around the person who made his day (you).
Sexy good morning text messages
Hello handsome… I was dreaming about you all night long.
This is on the milder side of sexy, but it’s a great way to inspire some creative imagination on his end. Surely, once he reads this message, especially if paired with a smiley emoji, he’ll be tempted into thinking about all the possible dreams you may have had and what role he played.
Hello handsome… I wish I had stayed in bed with you all morning.
Sending a message that helps get his mind thinking of you right next to him is bound to put some pep in his step.
Hello/morning, babe, just lying here imagining what would happen if you were here right now. Spoiler alert: It wouldn’t involve getting out of bed…
We recommend only sending this to him if you guys have seen each other semi-regularly or regularly, not to a one-night stand. It’s a fun, flirty way to get your man excited at the thought of your sexy self… so much so, he may not be able to contain himself.
Hello/good morning, babe. I just woke up thinking about the time we [insert sexy memory here].Reminiscing about some of your exciting and sexy times with your partner will spark some real morning heat. He’ll be taken right back to the moment, your touch, your warmth, and every other sensation possible.
Good morning/hello handsome, missing me yet?
This one can be used if you guys had spent the previous evening together with a fun and playful text. It’s nice enough to get a morning text in the first place, but this one is also a bit on the playful side while reminding him of the time you spent together.
What is a silly good morning text message?
Hello love… I just wanted to make sure I was the first thing on your mind today!
If you guys have a playful relationship, this direct and to-the-point text will surely get a little chuckle out of him in the morning, and he will remember how adorable you can be.
I hope your day’s as nice as your booty! Hello/good morning, cutie!
Complimenting him, saying good morning, and rhyming all at the same time. Is there anything you can’t do? He’s bound to find this charming and playful and, of course, will leave for work with a smile on his face at your absolute dorkiness.
So, I was originally thinking of making you breakfast this morning, but I was lazy, so I thought a good morning text would work instead. Hello/good morning!
This is another text that works well if you have built a foundation of silly, fun banter. Who wouldn’t love that adorable, girl-next-door type of vibe?
I thought of waiting until you texted me, but then I realized I didn’t want to wait sooo… WAKE UP, Good morning/hello!
Be careful with this level of playfulness, as it does teeter on the edge of annoying, depending on the man. Most will find this playful, but some (especially cranky morning men) may think it’s a bit too bubbly and over the top for first thing in the morning.
I had a feeling you might have been missing me, so I thought I’d bother you with a hello/good morning! Have a great day, hot stuff!
Complimenting a guy has probably never, ever been the wrong thing to do. He would love to wake up to something so innocent and sweet, and who wouldn’t smile after being called hot?
Reaching for professional advice
When you are thinking of what kind of morning text you want to send him, make sure you know what message you are trying to pass on and that it is clear. Ask yourself, what do you intend to accomplish with the text? Are you looking to be passive, subtle, forward, or assertive? You should bear in mind that your message will relay how you feel when sending the text. However, some good morning texts are sure to keep someone thinking about you. Save the sexy texts once you know where you want things to go and are sure that you are ready for that type of chat. Things may get steamy, so don’t start something you may not be ready for. That likely won’t be great for either of you. Regardless of the message you choose, he will certainly be reminded of you and your connection, thinking of you throughout the day.
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Takeaway
Before sending a good morning text, take a moment. Consider the person who lies underneath the surface of the man you are texting and where you want the morning conversation to go. If you are still in the beginning stages of getting to know one another, we would recommend going for either something simple or something silly. The longer you know each other, the more connected you will become, and this may be the time to send the more intimate texts. No matter what level you are in the relationship sending a fun, loving, or sexy text is sure to get his attention and bring you closer when apart.