15 Good Morning Texts For Him: Start His Day Off With You On His Mind
Updated November 25, 2019
Reviewer Lauren Guilbeault
So you've met a guy, and you're really into him. We've all been there. Texting etiquette with someone that you're connecting with can be a challenge, as many of us let our emotions dictate what we say and how we say it, rather than stepping back and considering how that may come off to the other person. One of the things we may all agree on is the importance of a good morning text.
Ladies, doesn't it just make your entire day when you hear that 'ding' or feel your phone vibrate first thing in the morning and read that, 'Good morning, Beautiful' or even simply, 'Good morning'? Instead of waiting for Prince Charming to come riding by (and trust us, Cinderella's already tied him down, so you may be waiting a while), let's consider taking charge of our romantic texting etiquette and be proactive with sexy good morning texts for him. This is a great way to flip the script, catch him off guard, and most importantly, keep you on his mind from the very start of his day.
Texting Can Help Build And Strengthen A Relationship…Or Ruin It
Partners may experience a love-hate relationship with texting, and that's completely natural. Texting can help make relationships stronger, but if not done healthily and positively, it also has the power to tear them apart. When sending your man a sexy text in the morning, be cautious of what you're saying, how it may come off, and what it implies beneath the surface. Because there's no intonation or facial expressions, there is a lot of room for miscommunication and misunderstanding.
To use texting to help build and strengthen your bond, use it as a tool to reinforce positive habits. Texting can be used as a means to customize the way you say hello or good morning to him by making it something personal to your relationship. For example, if you guys are really into 90s cartoons, you can both start the day with a good morning meme or gif that showcases this personal element. While this may not seem inherently 'sexy,' a man will find it sexy that you're taking into consideration something you both love and are starting his day with a thought related to your relationship. Small, personal messages throughout the day can leave a long-lasting, positive impression.
Use texting for good and not evil. Use this tool to show him that you're thinking of him and interested in him. Use it to send sexy messages here and there to keep things spicy and even as a tool to make plans.
Texting Can Enhance Romance
You can start building chemistry with a man through the way you text. Research shows that texting using emoticons or emojis increases perceived playfulness which builds social closeness. Romantic messages are also better perceived via text than verbally. There's a lacking sense of accountability when doing things virtually. When you are verbally leaving a sexy voicemail or talking sexy over the phone, there is more room to feel uncomfortable and self-conscious. When texting or sending sexy emails, you are free to take your time, compose your thoughts in exactly the way you want to, and when the recipient reads it, he can read it and interpret however he wants, enhancing the sexiness, allure, and mystery.
What Message Are You Delivering With Your Morning Text?
Before you decide on what text you're going to send, think about the actual message you're trying to send him. We can all agree that one of the primary motivations is to keep you on his mind. Aside from this, what are you trying to accomplish? Are you looking to be sexy/sexual? Do you intend to arouse him? Are you simply trying to wish a good morning and a good day? Are you looking to be more assertive and forward or subtle and passive? Your message will depend on your intention, so let's take a look at some effective good morning texts for him that are guaranteed to have him thinking about you from the moment his eyes open. You'll be sure to start his day off right, with a smile on his face, and with warmth in his heart.
Sweet, Simple Texts
Good morning, handsome/sexy.
Sometimes, the answer is staring you right in the face. It's never a bad thing to go with a classic, direct good morning. This text is simple and to the point, simply wishing your man a good morning, making him feel special, and putting a smile on his face. Being short, sweet, and simple is also a great option for someone that isn't necessarily a big morning person. There won't be too much reading or interpreting to do!
This is a very simple text that you can send him in the morning that will surely make him smile, while not being too aggressive or pushy. If you guys have talked about seeing each other sometime soon, or maybe even later that evening, this text will be a nudge that reminds him of your plans, makes him happy that you're thinking of him, and the playful wink will allure at a world of possibilities for when you guys meet. He'll be left thinking about you all day, wondering what fun things you guys may get into later. With this text, it's all in the mystery.
Send a funny meme without any context, or a simple "Good morning."
Sometimes, you don't need words at all. It can be just enough to send him a funny meme that helps start his day with a smile on his face, and he's going to have you to thank. This can be a great way to get him to say good morning and spark a conversation without any pressure from there.
Good morning, babe, thinking about you.
While this message may seem very simple, and it is, this is one of those situations where a little goes a long way. This is a very short, non-threatening way to tell a man you're thinking of him, which by itself, is a sexy thought to them, and he'll be so happy to have made an impression. It'll be a great start to the day.
Hey, I was just thinking about you and couldn't stop smiling. I hope you have a great day.
Letting him know that he's made an impression on you will give him a serious boost of confidence, which is a great feeling first thing in the morning. He'll leave for work feeling accomplished, cared for, appreciated, and looking forward to being around the person who made his day (you).
I was dreaming about you all night long.
This is on the milder side of sexy, but it's a great way to inspire some creative imagination on his end. Surely, once he reads this message, especially if paired with a smiley emoji, he'll be tempted into thinking about all the possible dreams you may have had and what role he played.
I wish I were staying in bed with you all morning.
Sending a message that helps get his mind thinking of you being right next to him is bound to put some pep in his step. If you guys are trying to get things hot and heavy, sharing some sexy morning photos can be effective and get him excited for your next meeting.
Morning, babe, just lying here imagining what would happen if you were here right now. Spoiler alert: It wouldn't involve getting out of bed…
We would recommend only sending this to him if you guys have been seeing each other semi-regularly or regularly, not to a one-night stand. It's a fun, flirty way to get your man excited at the thought of your sexy self… so much so, he may not be able to contain himself.
Good morning, babe. I just woke up thinking about the time we [insert sexy memory here].
Reminiscing about some of your exciting and sexy times with your partner will spark some real morning heat. He'll be taken right back to the moment, your touch, your warmth, and every other sensation possible.
Good morning, missing me yet?
A fun and playful text, this one can be used if you guys had spent the previous evening together. It's nice enough to get a morning text in the first place, but this one is also a bit on the playful side while reminding him of the time you spent together.
Silly Good Morning Texts
Morning, I just wanted to make sure I was the first thing on your mind today!
If you guys have a playful relationship, this direct and to the point text would surely get a little chuckle out of him in the morning, and he remembers how adorable you can be.
I hope your day's as nice as your booty! Good morning, cutie!
Complimenting him, saying good morning, and rhyming all at the same time. Is there anything you can't do? He's bound to find this charming and playful and of course, will leave for work with a smile on his face at your absolute dorkiness.
So I was originally thinking of making you breakfast this morning, but I was lazy, so I thought a good morning text would work instead. Good morning!
This is another text that works well if you have built a foundation of silly, fun banter. Who wouldn't love that adorable, girl next door type of vibe?
I thought of waiting until you texted me, but then I realized I didn't want to wait sooo… WAKE UP, Good Morning!
Be careful with this level of playfulness, as it does teeter on the edge of annoying, depending on the man. Most will find this playful, but some (especially cranky morning men) may think it's a bit too bubbly and over the top for first thing in the morning.
I had a feeling you might have been missing me, so I thought I'd bother you with a GOOD MORNING! Have a great day, hot stuff!
Complimenting a guy has probably never, ever been the wrong thing to do. He would love to wake up to something so innocent and sweet, and who wouldn't smile after being called hot?
Before sending a good morning text, think about the type of guy this man is and where you want the morning conversation to go. If you're still in the beginning stages of getting to know one another, we would recommend going for either something simple or something silly. Save the sexy texts for once you know where you want things to go and are sure that you're ready for that type of chat. Things may get steamy, so don't start something you may not be ready for. That likely won't be great for either of you. Regardless of the message you choose, he's certainly going to have you running through his mind all day long. If you're interested in learning more about how to communicate with someone you're interested in or proper chat etiquette, visit www.regain.com/start where a licensed counselor or therapist will be happy to help you with all of your relationship inquiries.