Love Words for Her That Make Her Feel Special

Updated September 21, 2023by Regain Editorial Team

If you’re in a relationship, you might have noticed that both you and your partner are continually searching for new ways to make one another feel loved and special. Letting your significant other know how much they mean to you can improve the level of satisfaction within the relationship and increase each person’s sense of happiness. You might already show your love through your actions but wonder how you could use your words to help your partner feel special. Using love words can help her feel special while also prompting her to want to return the favor by letting you know what you mean to her as well. 

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Love Words For Her

Finding the right love words depends a lot on you and your partner. If you want to make your partner smile, consider giving some terms of endearment to remind her how important she is to you. Consider what's important to each of you and try to base your words around those concepts. For some, calling a partner smart may be considered a term of endearment while others want to be told that they are sweet, funny, or beautiful. There are plenty of things you can choose to say, but only by knowing your partner can you say something that means something to her and shows how special she is to you.

Poems and songs can be another romantic way to express your love, but it's up to you to determine what kind of poem or song will touch her heart. Maybe your significant other has a favorite song, or maybe the two of you have a special song that means something to the relationship. Maybe you've heard a song or a poem that makes you think of your relationship or your partner in some way. Sharing these words or lyrics with her can make her feel special since she’ll know that you thought of her when reading or hearing those phrases.

Another effective way you can show your partner how much they mean to you is by creating your own words. Remember, your partner knows you, and they understand how you talk. Even if what you have to say wouldn’t make sense to someone else, it may mean the world to your partner. So, try to be yourself and let the words flow naturally. For many people, hearing something original come out of their partner’s mouth is all it takes to make them feel special.  


Creating Your Words

When picking which words to say to your partner, it can be important to think about what you love about her. If there are certain traits or qualities about her that make you think 'I chose the right person,’ keep these in mind as you come up with what to say. Once you’ve decided which characteristics you’d like to call to attention, you can choose how to express how you feel.  

Expressing your love through words doesn’t have to be about grand gestures or special exhibitions. Instead, you can express your love for your partner anytime, anywhere. By reminding your partner of the feelings you have for them on a regular basis, you can increase satisfaction within the relationship for each of you. Not only does your partner get to hear positive words about themselves, but you get to be reminded of how lucky you are to be with such a person. 

If you're like many people, you may know exactly how you feel about your mate but can't always find the right words to express it. Sometimes, you may just need a bit of inspiration. Here's a list of things that you can say or write to your girl when you can't find the words to say what you want to. You can personalize these sentiments by adding your partner’s name or putting your own unique spin on it. Try a few of these to help her feel special:

  • I wished upon a star for a girl just like you, and now I know that dreams come true.
  • I can't give you the world or everything you want, but I'm happy to give you my heart and soul.
  • Look into my eyes and find me, but peek into my heart if you want to find yourself.
  • Sometimes I just can't even believe that you chose me. I'm glad that you did.
  • Thank you for loving me, unconditionally. I need to be reminded that I'm worthy of it.
  • I just want to hold you close to me and slow dance all day long.
  • The Lord made you for me. I guess he knew what he was doing.
  • I feel the happiest and most complete when I'm with you.
  • Gosh, you're beautiful! I feel like I'm in paradise when I'm with you.
  • You're not only the smartest woman I know, but you are also the wisest, and I couldn't love you more for it.
  • When I wake up in the morning, my main goal is to make you smile and feel good about being you.
  • Not a moment goes by that I don't think of you.
  • I wish we could take a long walk on the beach today, hold hands, and feel the warm sand under our feet.
  • You're my special angel. Let's fly away together.
  • Our love is an endless circle. I never want to escape from it.
  • There aren't enough stars to hold the reasons I love you.
  • Carry my love with you on your way to work and back today.
  • You truly are my better half, and there's no better than you.
  • You're as beautiful as a delicate rose covered with dew on a soft spring morning.
  • Do you have any idea how many times I think about you throughout the day?
  • You make me feel like it's St. Patrick's Day every day of the year because I'm the luckiest person on earth.
  • I carry your spirit and soul with me wherever I am.
  • The other day, someone asked me why I was smiling, and I told them it was because I was thinking of you.
  • Since I met you, I can honestly say that I've never been happier.
  • Because of you, I am better, stronger, wiser, and more loving than would ever have been possible without you.
  • I carry the memories of all of our special times together in my heart. When I'm sad, I pick one and bring it to the front of my mind.
  • I never thought that a love like ours was possible, but I'm sure glad I found it.
  • Sometimes I just want to watch you as you sleep and breathe. You are so beautiful.
  • You always go after what you want, and that has inspired me to pursue my dreams too.
  • To say the three words, "I love you" don't always seem sufficient to express how I feel about you.

Why Love Words Can Be Important

When two people love each other, it can be important that they find ways to express how they feel. Reminding your partner why you’re with her can help the two of you grow closer together. Gratitude can be vital in any relationship and couples who feel appreciated by one another may enjoy an improved sense of connection. When you tell your partner how you feel about them, they’re more likely to return the favor. This can allow the relationship to grow stronger over time. There are many ways to make your significant other feel special, but it’s up to you to figure out what speaks to her specifically. 

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Online Counseling With Regain

Making your significant other feel special can be an important aspect of any relationship. Everyone shows love in different ways, and there is no single correct approach to making your partner feel loved. If you’re struggling to express how you feel, talking to a counselor could help you find the right words. Regain is an online counseling platform that can connect you with a therapist equipped to address your unique concerns. Whether you’d like to participate in individual or couples therapy, the choice is yours. Regain allows you to use phone calls, video chats, or in-app messaging to stay in touch with your therapist. Since you can meet anytime, anywhere, getting the support you need is often easier and more convenient with online counseling. 

The Efficacy Of Online Counseling 

Couples feeling dissatisfied with their relationship may benefit from online counseling. In this study, couples participating in couples therapy delivered via videoconferencing experienced similar outcomes as those attending face-to-face therapy. Although the therapeutic alliance didn’t vary between the groups, it did increase significantly with time for each group. Further, results showed improvements in relationship satisfaction, mental health, and all other outcome scores over time.

The Takeaway

Making someone feel special can be crucial in a relationship. Depending on your love language and ability to express how you feel, you may find it more challenging to come up with the right words to make her feel special. Open communication, expressiveness, and romantic language are all things that can be improved upon within a relationship. Seeking the help of an online therapist could be beneficial when you want to grow in any of these areas. A Regain therapist can help you identify the progress you’d like to make personally and within your relationship and then support you in reaching those goals.

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