The Best "Good Morning" Text Messages To Send Your Boyfriend

Updated August 16, 2023by Regain Editorial Team

Many may enjoy waking up to find a text from their significant other. If you want to give your boyfriend a great head start to his day and make sure he's thinking of you, your relationship and how great you are together, sending him a quick, simple "good morning" text can be a strong way to start. 

Below, we’ve included some inspiration to come up with the perfect things to say in your texts to your boyfriend.

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Good Morning Texts

Did you know that the way you start your day has been tied to how your day goes? Offering an encouraging, loving or even general acknowledgment text to your boyfriend can be a way to show him you care, and that he’s one of the first things you think about when you get up for the day. 

A simple "good morning" can go a long way, or you might choose to spice it up with a coffee date invite. There’s no wrong way to send this type of text.

Bringing In Some Spice

If you want to start the morning with a bit more flair, you can offer a simple-but a bit more charged-"Good morning, lover." This is still a fairly tame way to greet your boyfriend while potentially leaving room for them to take it to a more passionate next level.

If the above is a bit too tame for you, and you want to send a different, more urgent message, you could offer a photo along with a direct (though still elegant) "I need you" or "I want you" Type of message. 

Both of these are great ways to greet your guy, as they can let him know where your mind may roam in the morning — which might be right to him and what the two of you could be doing. 

Waxing Nostalgic

A little bit of nostalgia can go a long way. You can send a text referencing back to  the best vacation the two of you went on, or acknowledge a mutual shared, special memory. For example: Starting a text with, "Good morning, baby. Remember that hike we took over New Year's Eve?" might allow your boyfriend to wake up to a pleasant, loving memory of the two of you, which can set a positive and happy tone for the rest of his day.


Starting With A Compliment 

What could be better than waking up to a text detailing how special you are? If you want to start your boyfriend’s morning off right, or if you know he has a trying day ahead of him, you might choose to offer the most sincere, effusive compliments you can muster. You can complement his looks, his prowess, his career or even his hobbies.

Here’s an example: "Good morning! I can't stop thinking about how happy I am to have met you. You are the most generous, considerate diligent man I know, and I feel so fortunate that I get to be your partner." Authenticity and honesty can be helpful elements to consider as you begin to write the perfect complimentary text message. 

Creating Plans

Good morning texts can also be tools to help you plan out your next date. A quick, "So, What are we doing later?" can help get your boyfriend thinking about your future plans, potentially building his excitement.

This method of communication generally depends on your comfort level with your boyfriend. If you don't feel comfortable enough to be so direct, you can amend the above text to a more tentative: "Hey, you busy tonight?"

If you are more confident assuming that your boyfriend will be spending the evening with you, there are cute things to send to your boyfriend to let him know what you have planned. For example, sending "Netflix, cereal and face masks. We're going to party" lets him know that you have something planned but also might inject some humor into the interaction.

When To Avoid A "Good Morning" Text

While good morning texts can be beneficial to your relationshipThere are some times you should refrain from sending off a morning greeting. Varying communication patterns and styles can be normal in many relationships — so it can be helpful to use your discretion and experience to inform your approach.

For example: You might want to avoid these types of texts when your relationship has just started. A morning greeting might feel too intimate for a brand-new relationship. Instead, it might feel more natural and comfortable only to contact your guy when you have something concrete to say, rather than speaking for the sake of speaking. You can have an honest discussion with your partner to determine what they prefer, and plan your texting schedule accordingly. 

You might also avoid "Good morning" texts when your boyfriend has asked for some space. Taking space can be healthy at times, and respecting boundaries in this time can show your partner that you care for their preferences and well-being. Seeking support from a therapist can be a helpful step to determine what works best for your specific needs in this time. 

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A good morning text can help your partner to start their day off positively. Beginning your text with a cute note, a simple greeting or a nostalgic moment can make it even more enjoyable and impactful. Online therapy can be an effective tool to enhance your communication skills. Regain can connect you with a therapist in your specific area of need.

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