10 Signs He Sees Himself Marrying You

Perhaps you've been dating the same person for a while. You may be wondering if your significant other is hearing wedding bells as well or if you should be looking for the signs he doesn't want to marry you. If either of you is thinking of marriage, talking about relationship goals and the future together may be the right next step. Positive communication can be important in any relationship, especially one that may lead to a lifelong union. With clear communication, you and your partner can learn what each other are thinking about your relationship, your life together, marriage, and more.

It’s also possible that a partner may show some signs that they’re thinking about marriage, although there is no “checklist,” and only your significant other really knows their own motivations. But if you're thinking about marriage and wondering if your partner is, too, you might consider these ten signs that may lead to a decision to take walk down the aisle as a soon-to-be married couple. Let's take a look into what makes a man want to marry you.

You and your partner are exclusively committed to each other and to the relationship

With marriage typically comes commitment. If a partner isn’t committed to you, marriage might not be on their mind (at least not yet). Before you consider whether your partner wants to get married, looking closely at whether they want to be with you exclusively can be a good step. A committed partner will likely be willing to tell you that they are committed to you, and their actions should generally reflect their devotion. They may say they see you in their life for the long-term. Even if they don't say "marriage," they may make it clear that they want to be with you exclusively, now and in the future.

You talk about the future together

Your partner may start talking about the future with you. For instance, you might make long term plans, go on vacations, be their date for family and friend's weddings, and be invited to spend time with their loved ones. If they want your relationship to be long term, they may welcome you, invite you, and encourage you to be a part of most aspects of their life. They may also begin to include you on making significant plans for the future, such as moves, job changes, and investments in a home or car. They'll also probably want you to keep them in the loop regarding your plans and goals, too. 

You bring out the best in each other

In a relationship that’s headed for marriage, a partner may tell you or indicate that their life is better with you in it. They may express gratitude for the things you do for them and what you mean to them, and they may want to reciprocate to do what’s best for you, too. You might seem bring out the best in each other. Relationships can be most positive when both partners become better people for being with each other. If you see a partner grow in a good way, and they want to be a better person for you, that may be a sign that that the relationship is serious and meaningful to them. (This is not to say that you should enter a relationship and try to change a person. Forcing change is not the same as a person truly wanting to change.) 

You and your partner celebrate each other’s accomplishments

A supportive partner will likely celebrate your accomplishments with you. For instance, they may not feel jealous if you achieve more, earn more, or have great opportunities. Instead, they might be proud of and happy for you. Beyond big accomplishments, they may also celebrate the little things with you. They might also know your goals (even small ones) and help you stick to them. Together, you can support each other through both the high and low moments of life.

Your partner is saving money for a future with you

When a couple is considering taking a big step—like planning a wedding, thinking about buying an engagement ring, or looking at other ways that they want to merge lives—they may begin saving money to prepare. In addition to being reassuring and exciting if you’re hoping an engagement is in your future, financial planning can bode well for a future marriage. Solid finances can be a key factor in marital stability.

You and your partner can be yourselves with each other

What does your partner act like around you? Are they reserved? Funny? Relaxed? Do they seem to act like their most genuine, authentic self? People sometimes act differently depending on who they are with, but if marriage is on their mind and yours, you both may encourage each other to be your true selves when you’re together. Even if vulnerability is difficult, you both may feel safe being honest and open with each other. You may not only feel like you can be your most authentic selves, but also be true to one another, too.

You and your partner mutual trust and respect

Trust can be a major factor in a positive, healthy relationship. In a relationship headed toward marriage, you may find you have a strong level of trust and feel fully respected by your partner. Mutual trust and respect can be an important part of a solid foundation on which to build a lasting, healthy relationship and marriage.

You’re there for each other

Feeling that your partner is dependable and will do their best to be there when you need them often goes hand in hand with trust. Big and small gestures can show you how much you care and how much you want to be there for each other in good times and bad.