Learning How To Love Yourself & Quotes To Remember

By ReGain Editorial Team|Updated May 10, 2022
CheckedMedically Reviewed By Karen Devlin, LPC

Everyone knows it is important to love yourself; we are told that giving and receiving love requires self-love. Many people do not even realize that they do not love themselves, and some drift along trying to find love to fill the void that an absence of self-love creates. Maybe a broken relationship has left some scars, or maybe the same situations and behaviors keep stopping you from living your dreams and finding happiness. Self-love won't fix everything, but it will make it easier for you to deal with the ups and downs of life.

We all face challenges in life, but facing those challenges is difficult when there is a lack of self-love. Self-blame and being too critical of yourself can rob you of the ability to make changes in your life. Accepting responsibility for your behaviors and decisions is important but blaming yourself and criticizing yourself harshly only makes problems and challenges seem bigger than they are.

Learning to love yourself takes patience. Inspirational quotes and affirmations can help you learn to love yourself by reminding you how important and important you are. Use these quotes to help you learn to love yourself and inspire you to let go and accept love from others.

Quotes To Remember

Prejudice is sinful. All blood flows red, and the most harmful and foolish kind of prejudice is prejudice against yourself. Every woman is your sister, and every woman needs her sisters. So, try to give other women the courtesy of your compassion, respect, and forgiveness. Love yourself despite - and because of - your flaws. - Jewell Parker Rhodes

Love who you are, embrace who you are. Love yourself. When you love yourself, people can kind of pick up on that: they can see confidence, they can see self-esteem, and naturally, people gravitate towards you. - Lilly Singh

Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down. - Roy T. Bennett

Encourage yourself, believe in yourself, and love yourself. Never doubt who you are. - Stephanie Lahart

Whatever you do, be gentle with yourself. You don't just live in this world, or your home, or your skin; you also live in someone's eyes. - Sanober Khan

You are not an option, a choice, or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be the one. If you can wrap yourself around the idea that you are something incredible, then you will stop excusing behavior that rapes your very soul. You were never meant to teach someone to love you. You were meant to be loved. - Shannon L. Alder

Why escape your intended purpose by copying and trying to be someone else? You will discover who you were meant to be only after you have shown confidence in being yourself. - Suzy Kassem

Above everything else, genuinely love yourself first. Self-love is powerful, and it's the best love that you will ever have. When you love who YOU are, your relationships will be healthier, and your life will be happier. Self-love sets the standard in how we allow others to treat us and how we treat ourselves. Your happiness and well-being are important. Protect it by always valuing who you are! - Stephanie Lahart

Self-acceptance is not conditional. There is no: I will accept myself when. Learn to love yourself now. Yes, you can work on yourself and work on things. Just don't hinge on your self-love and self-acceptance in your performance. You deserve your own love. You need your own love. You need your own love now. Let go of any ideas of perfection. Be yourself as you are. Love yourself, as you are, unconditionally. - Akiroq Brost

Be yourself because an original is always worth more than a copy. - Suzy Kassem

Once you learn to love yourself first, you will be able to attract love and healthy relationships. What you feel inside is obvious outside. That glow, that radiance which you exude, has a cascading effect on everyone around you. So, love yourself first, love yourself freely and with all your heart. You will be able to love others much better and spread love all around. - Latika Teotia

Genuine self-love is the most profound experience in the universe. However, it usually takes time, sincere dedication, and discipline to develop. We are surrounded by so many images, beliefs, and behaviors that reinforce the idea of self-hatred every day that it can be extremely difficult for us to connect to the love inside us. - Mateo Sol

When nobody enjoys your company, enjoy yourself. When nobody wants to walk with you, walk with yourself. When nobody loves you, love yourself. Then you will find that everyone wants to be with you, walk with you, and love you. - Debasish Mridha

Instead of guilting and punishing yourself, practice loving yourself more. Guilt and shame fill a deficit with yet more deficit. Pain begets pain. Be careful. Be forgiving of yourself. Be loving to yourself. Give yourself grace. There is no perfection except to continue trying. The past has passed. Leave it be. Encourage yourself. Fill in any shame or guilt you have with love. Love yourself as your creator loves you—practice gratitude. Celebrate your victories. Build yourself up. Cultivate positive habits and positive habits of thinking. Life will be easier when you learn to be easier on yourself. Be gentle with your soul. If anyone deserves your kindness, if anyone stands to benefit from your kindness, it's you, first and foremost. - Akiroq Brost

When you start loving yourself and respecting your time and energy, things will change. Get to know your worth, and your value will go up. - Germany Kent

Whatever you did today is enough. Whatever you felt today is valid. Whatever you thought today isn't to be judged. Repeat the above each day. - Brittany Burgener

What if each time you experienced an emotion, you acknowledged it, accepted it, and became curious about its message for you (instead of trying to make it go away or make it last longer)? Imagine how this could change your life. Imagine how heard, loved, and honored you would feel if you really listened to yourself. - Vironika Tugaleva

Today is the perfect day to do something daring. Like just be yourself, for instance. - Scott Stabile

Celebrate your achievements and victories without waiting for recognition from others; after all, it's your efforts which brought that accomplishment. A flower blooms in the desert with nary a person appreciating its beauty, yet it blossoms, spreads its fragrance and enjoys its existence. A dewdrop caught on the leaf in an unexplored forest sparkles like a diamond; it doesn't need spectators to appreciate its beauty. It would help if you weren't dependent on others to encourage you; instead, be your own cheerleader… Love yourself to bits. - Latika Teotia

You don't have to stop fighting for others; you have to remember to fight for yourself too. - Liz Newman

No one woke up one morning out of the blue and just outright fully loved themselves. It takes active effort. It takes an active presence. It would help if you learned to be more self-aware. It would help if you found things to be grateful for about yourself. You need to practice that love. Start small but do it every day. Write it down if it helps. Keep growing the list of self-appreciation and love. Learn to look into the mirror and love the person looking back at you. Find that self-acceptance. Accept yourself not in perfection but love. I love the fallible and frail human you are. Develop self-love. If you want to have a successful and happy life, you need to become your own friend. You must foster and nurture the relationship you have with yourself. Out of all the people in your life, the one you will be with the longest is yourself. I can't stress enough how important it is to learn to love yourself. Practice it every day. - Akiroq Brost

Make peace with yourself before you move forward. Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. - Roy T. Bennett

Life's trials will test you and shape you, but don't let them change who you are. - Aaron Lauritsen

What a rebellious act it is to love yourself naturally in a world of fake appearances. - Nikki Rowe

Kiss your scars. Fall in love with them. They ought to serve as a life-affirming reminders-a lingering trace of hope. The only reason we have these scars is that we survived and are still here. - Kamand Kojouri

Love from a genuine place, but don't lose yourself trying to change someone that has clearly shown you their true character and intentions. Know your worth! Your priority should always be YOU. Love shouldn't be complicated, so don't willingly compromise yourself with unnecessary hurt, pain, and disappointment. Have confidence in yourself! Protect your heart! Your love is valuable, and so are you! Save your love for someone who truly deserves it, appreciates it, and wants it. - Stephanie Lahart

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