12 Signs He Wants To Be More Than Friends
Medically Reviewed By Lauren Guilbeault, LMHCLet’s say that you’ve known someone for a while, but lately, you notice that your relationship is veering into something more. It could be that you’re close friends or even best friends, and changes are occurring in the way you interact with one another. Your friendly feelings are developing into something more, and that’s a good sign he’s into you. Maybe, you hold each other’s gaze for longer than you used to, or maybe, conversations that used to be friendly are bordering on flirty.
Another possibility is that you met someone recently and wondered if they like you as more than a friend. Sometimes, it’s hard to differentiate subtle cues of romantic interest from friendliness or a bubbly, friendly personality. As a result, you experience genuine confusion as to if someone’s into you or not. Other times, you want to know if someone likes you before you make a move or take things forward.
It could be an office buddy or a male friend you recently started getting close to. It is mostly believed that due to societal standards, guys don’t display emotions as much as the female gender- most men tend to suppress their emotions and feelings- and this makes it hard to decipher if a guy likes you. Maybe you like him and are interested in dating him, but you are unsure if the feeling is mutual. And if you are the shy type, you may be too embarrassed to talk to your female friends about it as you do not want them to make a fuss over the issue; of course, approaching him to ask directly isn’t an option.
At one point or the other, every girl gets to that place where she wonders about a male friend – “Does he like me or not?” No one wants to be left in the dark or spend too much time wondering. The good news is that it’s possible to clarify the situation so that you don’t have to wonder anymore. Look out for these signs; he likes you as more than a friend to be sure to know where the relationship and friendship are heading. Here are all the signs a guy is interested in you romantically and the signs he doesn’t want to be just friends.
12 Signs He Wants To Be More Than Friends
1. He Remembers The Details Of What You Tell Him.Men, and people in general, are not always good listeners. According to research, men, in particular, are not all too good at remembering details. Studies show that men only use one side of their brain when listening, while women use both sides. When men listen, they process language using the brain’s left hemisphere while women process language through both the right and left hemispheres. Since emotions are processed primarily in the right hemisphere and language in the left, men also have difficulty connecting words to feelings as easily or effectively as women. But, when a guy likes you, he’ll notice things about you and seem more engaged in what you’re saying, often maintaining eye contact and open body language while you speak. So, when he’s listening actively, he’s telling you that he’s a man who likes you. Furthermore, men are problem solvers and are quick in decision-making. They want nothing more than to fix a situation and get it over and done. At the same time, women take the time to listen and process information carefully, mentally storing details for future reference. So, men are also conditioned to listen actively. When a woman initiates a conversation, the man automatically assumes she is seeking his advice or assistance-something that he can solve for her. Some say that men do not remember details because they’re wired to be the protector and provider. They look at things as the big picture, while women are experts and remember everything from anniversary dates and birthdays to details of a weekend away. Every word said in an argument five years prior. So, if you find that your guy friend is patiently listening and remembering the details of what you said, there’s a good chance he’s into you more than just a friend. When a male friend doesn’t just listen to you to give a reply but is actively listening to you with care and attention; or he remembers details of things you have discussed with him previously, or he asks you deeper questions about something you shared with him, then this is an obvious sign that he cares about you. If he remembers the littlest details- your birthday (that’s not so little, right?), your favorite color, your best friend’s name, even your dog’s favorite food, and every single thing about you, he is definitely into you.
2. The Way He Talks To You Differs From The Way He Talks To Other People. Pay attention to how he talks to other people in comparison to how he talks with you. Are his mannerisms the same when he talks to his friends and other women, or are they more flirtatious with you? A guy who likes you will use more flirtatious language, but only with you. Does he seem more excited to talk to you, ask you more questions, use a different tone of voice, or give you more physical cues? Do his eyes light up a bit more? If it’s a guy who likes you at work, he might stray off-topic from work-related issues or he’ll compliment you on things often. When you compare and contrast his behavior with other friends and his behavior with you, especially if you’re together with a group of people. He still engages with you more or treats you in a way that makes you feel special; it’s a potential giveaway to the fact that he’s into you and sees you as more than a friend. Another strong indicator would be he’ll compliment you. If your male friend loves to shower you with compliments in the presence of others and when you are alone, this could be a great way to know he likes you. Compliments are a great way to gauge if a guy likes you and wants something deep with you. Does he compliment you on the littlest things you don’t even pay much attention to or comment on unique tidbits about your personality? Or even notice subtle changes in your hairstyle or that you used a different makeup? This shows that he cares about your looks and likes you beyond just friendship.
3. His Body Language Gives It Away. In addition to physical touch itself, people use certain body language cues when they like someone. Actions speak louder than words, and this body language serves as signs a guy likes you. If someone likes you, they’re likely to be physically drawn to you, have open posture when they’re with you (for example, he may appear relaxed, comfortable, and attentive, with lowered or rested shoulders), gaze at you for longer than he looks at other people, whether it’s from across the room or when you’re looking at each other directly, or sit and stand closer to you than he would with others. He might even appear nervous or sweaty in your presence. His face may flush every so often. If you notice your male friend acts differently when you are around him- tries to act cool in front of you, is quieter, or acts sweetly whenever you are around, this may indicate that he wants you, as guys don’t do that except they like you. If you like him back and want to get some extra information about what’s going on or make a subtle flirt toward him, you might say sweetly and coyly, “are you blushing?” Pay attention to how he reacts to that question, and you might see a response that serves as a dead giveaway. That’s why body language provides the top signs a guy is attracted to you romantically and wants to be more than just friends.Also, when a man likes a woman, he may occasionally mirror her body language- i.e., hold eye contact, imitate her speech patterns or gestures. These signs a guy likes you are a bit easier to spot during a conversation. If your male friend does this, this is one of the subtle signs he likes you, respects and admires you, wants to gain mutual trust, and creates a connection with you. If he begins to use similar language to you, like shortened words or slang, or he imitates some of your mannerisms like using your hands or touching your hair when talking, he likes you. If you also notice that he ‘accidentally’ touches you now and then- not in a wrong or invasive manner, but playfully and decently- this is a very significant clue. Guys usually like to touch ladies they have a crush on, even in the slightest possible ways, just about anything that allows him to feel you. Another positive sign that a male friend likes you is if he smiles at you a lot. For example, if this guy is a shy person, but whenever he sees you, a smile lights upon his face or constantly maintains eye contact, this is to hint that he is into you and wants to be more than just a casual friend. Does he look away quickly when you catch him staring? Then he is probably interested in you but shy. If his eyes wander to your mouth when you are together, he likes you.
4. He Starts The Conversation. Does he reach out to you and always initiates contact? Perhaps, substantially more than you reach out to him? Maybe he tries to get your attention by sharing funny joke or sending a funny meme. If so, this could be a sign that he either wants to be close to you or that he wants to be more than friends. It also shows that he thinks he can stand a chance with you as more than just friends. Maybe, he asks you questions that he doesn’t need the answer to start a conversation, or he makes an effort to inquire about how your day is regularly going. He’s excited to talk to you, and he’ll take any chance he gets to do it! He makes use of calls and texts and might take the chance to wish you a good morning and a good night, even if it’s just to open the conversation. If your guy friend started doing this out of nowhere, or if you meet someone new and they’re always reaching out, it might be because there’s a critical thought on his mind that he can’t get the courage to verbalize, which would be that he likes you.
5. He Likes All Of Your Pictures. This might seem a little bit silly, but if he likes all of your pictures and posts on social media and you see other signs that he’s interested, it could very well mean that he likes you as more than just a friend. Sure, friends like each other’s Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook posts. They react to each other’s Snapchats or public Instagram stories. However, if he likes every one of your pictures and heart-reacts to every Facebook post, you make even though you feel they make no sense to him, or if he frequently initiates chats and conversations, there could be something there.
6. When You’re In A Room Full Of People, He Pays Attention To You The Most. Say that you’re out with a group of mutual friends or that you’re at a party, and he happens to be there. Although there are many other people to talk to, he chooses to turn your way. It might even seem as though you’re the only two people there, despite being in a crowded or well-filled room because his eyes and his attention are on you and you alone. This might happen in more subtle ways as well. For example, even if he’s engaging in the rest of the group, he might place extra focus on getting your opinion and asking you follow up questions, may keep prolonged eye contact with you, or he might look at you more than he looks at other people who are around.
7. He Wants Alone Time With You. Despite the way this may sound, it isn’t meant to be innuendo. The same way that he pays the most attention to you, even in a room full of other people, he seems to want to hang out with you one on one. He might ask you to come over for dinner, go hiking, a picnic on the beach, to go to a bar, an arcade, or an event with you alone, or to hang out and chill at his place – just the two of you. Some people like to hang out with people one-on-one because they have social anxiety or have deep conversations with one or two people. Still, if you typically see each other in groups and he wants to spend time with you one on one specifically, it’s a good sign that he’s into you and that your personality and your company appeal to him.
8. He’s Tongue Tied.Even the most astute male communicator will flounder under your mere presence if he’s really into you. What was once an effortless and smooth dialogue when he saw you as just a friend has now become a nervous search for the perfect words. A guy who likes you will want to choose the right words so that he might get a bit tongue-tied. Even if his words are shaky and he’s a bit nervous, he’ll likely make some effort to maintain eye contact. So, if you find him suddenly tripping up his words and tongue-tied, it could be a sign he wants to be more than friends.
9. His Reaction To Your Presence.One way to know for sure if your guy friend likes you is to watch how he reacts when you enter a room. If a guy likes you, you’ll be able to tell from his body language when you’re around him. A guy who likes you may begin to act a bit different around you, might stumble over his words, or even try to show off when you are around. Does his posture change, so he looks taller? Does he fix his hair or straighten his clothes? Does he try to keep consistent eye contact with you? Does he look down at his shoes to make sure they’re tied? Does he tuck in his shirt to avoid appearing messy? Nice guys who likes you at work might defer to you more in meetings or focus on you instead of the speaker. This is a subconscious reaction to your presence and is a sure sign that he’s not only looking forward to seeing you but that he wants to look his best around you at all times and wants to impress you. This may also play out in terms of cracking jokes and throwing teases to see you laugh.
10. He Makes His Feelings Known: When a guy feels expressly permitted that he can move forward, he will likely make his feelings known. He asks you out on a Sunday afternoon to see a romantic comedy for some lip service or out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. If a guy wants to be more than friends with you, he’s going to want to be alone with you on a real date. It might not be the most expensive restaurant or the most extravagantly planned day, but it will be just you two, and it will be special. He’ll know what you like (because he remembers the details), and he might plan the date around those interests.
11. He’s Willing To Drop Everything For You. Indeed, a good friend is there for you when you’re down, but a partner (or someone who wants to be your partner) will often react in a particular and more loving fashion when you’re in need. Is he the first to ask, “Hey, are you okay?” or “do you want to talk?” when you’re sad? Does he try to cheer you up when you’re down and pay close attention when you talk about how you feel? Does he seem genuinely interested rather than dismissive? Does he rub your back or hold you when you’re upset? If so, this tells you two things. First, it tells you that he truly cares about you. Second, it tells you that he’s making an effort to show you that he’d be a supportive partner. Everyone shows that they like someone differently, depending on who they are and how eager they are to tell you how they feel. Still, at the very least, this tells you that he has regard for your emotions and wants to comfort you, which is an excellent thing to have from anyone in your life. If your male friend is always willing to help you out more than a friend would or helps you with your work, even if it is tedious work, he probably likes you and wants you to be more than a casual friend. If he usually finds any and every excuse to spend time with you, then there’s something there. After all, will someone always crave avenues to spend so much time with another person if he doesn’t like you? Of course not. You may also notice that he finds it hard to say goodbye to you after a conversation or meeting. You both may have spent the whole night talking about not-so-important things, yet it feels like the best conversation ever, and he doesn’t even want to stop- of course, you don’t too—# winks. You are most likely in his heart if he always wants to drop everything to spend a lot of time with you.
12. He Doesn’t Mention Other Girls (And Doesn’t Like It When You Talk About Other Guys). If a guy likes you, it makes sense that he wouldn’t talk about other romantic interests around you. You’re the one that’s on his mind, and he wants you to know that he’s available. Most guys check out countless numbers of girls every day. If you are not more than a friend, he won’t even have a problem telling you that a girl he saw at the bus stop is hot. But if he likes you and wants something deep with you, he won’t talk about this other girl and you will be the center of his world, giving you all the contact, and the only girl he has eyes for. Additionally, if you’ve ever brought up other romantic interests to him or other guy, he may have shown jealousy, disappointment, or sadness, though he may try to hide it; deep inside, many questions are popping up in his head. If you’ve ever mentioned feelings for someone else, or even if you’ve talked about missing an ex-partner, how did he react? Did his face fall a little bit? If so, that’s a potential sign that he likes you – especially if he’s flirty with you in any capacity. If he hasn’t mentioned other girls and you haven’t mentioned other guys to him, you can also look at if he’s reciprocal when you flirt or not. If you’re shy and haven’t made a move yet, it might be tough to gauge how he feels for sure, but if you have tried your hand at flirting with him and he reciprocates, it’s a sign that he likes you and wants to take things up a notch. Pay attention to his behavior when topics surrounding romance come up – that might be your greatest hint. Much of the time, you’ll notice several of the signs above if a person likes you. However, there are times when someone – especially if you’re close friends – will try to hide their feelings not to ruin your friendship. Even when you have a hunch that someone likes you, it’s natural to be nervous and to want as much clarity as possible. If you like him, pouring your heart out without knowing how he feels can be anxiety-inducing. If you’re nervous and want a professional to talk things through with, or you need relationship advice or dating tips, you might consider seeking the help of mental health professional. Regardless of if you see someone online or in your local area, you deserve a safe, comfortable space to talk things through.
In summary, the biggest signs that your friend he’s a guy who likes you involve his actions and body language and the things that he comes out and tells you. While just one of these telltale signs taken alone isn’t the perfect indicator that he’s romantically into you, it’s hard to say “he’s just a friend” when a lot of these signs are taken together.
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How do I know if a guy likes me?
If there’s a guy in your life, especially a guy who’s already a good friend of yours, you might be looking at signs he likes you more than a friend. There are some subtle signs and some more obvious signs he’s into you romantically. For example, paying attention to your stories, sharing tons of photos and stories of the two of you on social media, and asking specific questions about your love life are signs he’s interested in you as more than just a friend and wants to know if he stands a chance. Other ways to know if a guy likes you are:
- He leans towards you to close up space between you whenever you sit close to each other. When you are having a conversation, he may lean from side to side, place his hand on his hip to take more space, and appear ‘in charge.’ This is an age-old power pose that men use to show that they are capable and strong.
- He encourages you to do things you have desired to do. He motivates and supports you to do things that make you happy or help you grow and shows you that he has your best interest at heart and wants to see you thrive.
- He initiates conversations between you both. Sends opening texts, makes calls and tries to set updates. He shows it in his actions, not just words, that he likes spending time with you.
- He wants you to meet his friends and brings you around to his friend group. He talks to his friends about you and is also concerned about what you think of the people he cares about.
- He doesn’t check his phone when he is around you; he focuses his attention on you fully throughout the time you both spend together. This is a good sign that he likes you.
- He wants to show you the things he likes and wants you to do the same. Showing someone your favorite things is more like showing them more of yourself, and also a way of checking if they are also into those things, so if he does this, then he likes you. It’s that simple.
- He takes you along to family gatherings and events, is ready to talk to his mum about you, or shows you to his family; this is a good sign to show that he is interested in integrating you into his family and circle.
- If he willingly says yes to almost anything you ask him to do, or doesn’t like to disappoint you, then he most likely is into you.
- He behaves or says that he misses you when you are away from each other.
- He gives you comfort when you have a hard time and always tries to see that you are fine.
- He asks you many questions, maybe to know more about you or get your opinion on matters. This is a subtle sign, but it is a sign because it shows that he cares about what you think.
- He treats you more special than he treats other ladies and offers you support.
- He will be there at important events in your life and may sometimes sacrifice his commitments to get something done for you.
It’s important to note that the signs above can apply to anyone regardless of gender. In general, these signs can indicate that someone is interested in you.
Why is my guy friend constantly asking about my love life?
A guy friend who is always asking about the state of your love life is exhibiting one of the signs he likes you more than a friend. It’s a big sign that he is interested in you romantically. It means he’s looking for more information about your feelings towards him, even though he seems to be asking about other guys and relationships in your life. The chances are that he’s looking to see if you’re interested in him without asking you outright if you romantically like him. He might be trying to gauge your interest in a subtle way rather than giving you a clear sign because he is afraid of rejection.
When male friends ask their female friend all about her love life or if she has a new guy in her life, it’s one of the signs he likes you as more than a friend. Even if you are close friends, it can feel a bit intrusive at times. For example, he might be asking about every guy on your social media; that’s a sign he’s jealous of other men in your life. If a guy likes you, he’ll usually ask if you think another guy likes you. It’s because he’s trying to size up any competition. While this may seem unnecessary, especially if you return the romantic feelings for you, it’s one of the biggest signs he likes you as more than a friend. Constantly asking about your love life is his way of sizing up the possibility that you like him back; it’s a sign that he likes you as more than just a friend.
However, it’s a huge sign that he wants to be romantically involved with you; it means he likes you. So, the best course of action is to be open and honest about your love life and to encourage him to be open and honest about his feelings, too. You can seek relationship advice from a professional to help you with how to go about this. If he’s interested in taking the friendship further, he should eventually stop asking about your love life and start becoming an active participant in it!
Will dating my guy friend ruin the friendship?
If you have guy friends who are exhibiting any of the signs he likes you more than a friend, you might be worried about preserving the existing friendship, even if you are interested in him romantically, too. It’s true that in a lot of cases, once you go into a relationship with guy friends, it’s nearly impossible to get back to a comfortable and relaxed friend zone. So, this is normal to worry about since no planning ahead or relationship can restore the friendship you’re enjoying now with your guy friend. It’s also normal to be more afraid of rejection or embarrassment than usual when your love interest is a friend.
The fact of the matter is that you can’t go into a romantic relationship with a close friend without risking some elements of the friendship. If a guy likes you and you like him, and if you’re already close friends, then it’s best to have a frank conversation about your feelings. Be sure to pay attention to your plans for the future, exactly what you expect as the relationship moves forward, and how you plan to navigate other friendships – such as mutual friends and families if you’re close to each other’s families – if and when you start dating.
Having all of these things squared away and clearly defined at the beginning of the relationship and seeking relationship advice from professionals will help you keep that close friendship a bit safer from falling apart. Any relationship expert will tell you that communication is everything, which is an excellent example of that.
How can I date my friend without risking our great friendship?
When you enter into a romantic relationship with a close friend, there’s no way to remove all of the risk factors. While you might be afraid of rejection or a messy breakup even before you’ve started dating your friend, it’s important to consider the benefits as well as the risks of dating good friends.
For example, you might be afraid that you’ll lose a close and intimate friend. However, since you already spend a lot of time together, the romantic feelings you have for each other are already based on a stronger and more intimate friendship. This means that your romantic feelings have stronger support than if you were falling for a stranger. He knows your likes and dislikes, and you know his likes and dislikes. If you’ve talked about relationships together before, he might even know your specific likes and dislikes as they relate to romance. Being afraid of rejection is understandable, but this is one of the perks of a relationship that started as a friendship!
Also, dating your friend puts you in a position to love someone for deeper reasons. If your guy friend has romantic feelings for you, especially after you’ve been friends for a while, that means he’s based his attraction to you on more than just shallow or superficial criteria. It’s a good sign that he likes you for more than just your looks; it’s a clear sign that he values your relationship as close friends and the intimacy that has been built as you spend more time together.
How can I put my guy friend in the friend zone?
It’s a classic story: you’re friends with a guy, but the guy likes you. Even if you’re a friend he likes, you don’t want to get romantically involved. He’s more than just a casual friend, but you don’t have any romantic feelings for him. You could be avoiding being more than friends with him for many reasons, but you want to put him into the friend zone and keep the friendship how it is. This isn’t easy since it could impact many patterns in your friendship, such as body language and frequency of calling or texting. Additionally, you’re probably anxious about setting a boundary here because you’re cognizant of the potential that he’s afraid of rejection and doesn’t want to be too harsh.
First, you should determine if he’s pursuing a romantic relationship with you. Does he call or often text, even out of the blue? Does he comment on your new dress? Does he have the same favorite band? Is he always raving about your sense of humor? Has he told you outright that he wants a romantic relationship with you? If so, you should have an honest and open conversation about your feelings. First, address how much you enjoy being his friend and don’t want the friendship to change. Then, acknowledge his feelings and affirm all of the things you like about him: his style, his sense of humor, his commitment to friendship, etc.
Finally, explain to him that you want to be friends. Be sure to explain specifically what this means: Maybe, you’ll spend a bit less time calling or texting each other, or you’ll spend more time in a group setting instead of one on one. This is a great way to start over if a guy likes you, but you put him into the friend zone. As time goes on, you’ll also probably have to address what happens when another guy likes you or when he starts seeing someone else. If he’s open to being in the friend zone for the sake of keeping the friendship, that means he’s committed to the friendship just like you are. If he continues to try to load more love into the relationship, especially after you’ve made it abundantly clear that you don’t feel the same way, that is a sign of disrespect.
Although he may decide to stay friends, it’s also possible that he might back out of the friendship after being friend-zoned. If this is the case, it means he’s not ready to give up his romantic feelings for you. It would help if you gave it time; don’t give up on the friendship entirely, but give him time to work through his feelings. Seeking relationship advice from a professional can help you navigate through this period better. Remember, like all friendships and relationships, it’s okay if your dynamic grows and changes with the friendship over time.
I friend-zoned a guy, so why is he still hitting on me?
Often, after you friend zone a guy friend, he may still show the signs that he likes you as more than a friend. For example, he may constantly make prolonged eye contact, send those body language signs, mention things about how he likes you, or jokes consistently about how you should be together. Or, he may be finding excuses to touch you whenever he can. While this means he’s still interested in you romantically, there are some ways that you can address this.
First, talk to him about the healthy boundaries that friends, even close friends, have with each other. Tell him exactly how eye contact and excessive calling or texting make you feel. If you feel uncomfortable, explain that to him. Even as a friend, if a guy likes you, he should respect these feelings and change his behavior and body language signs. Someone who cares about you won’t want to make you uncomfortable, after all.
He might respond that he cannot get over his feelings for you. This means he’s set on you, and he can’t see himself with anyone else. If this is the case, you will likely see some major changes in the relationship, at least at first. With time, you might be able to gain back the intimacy and closeness of your friendship, but it won’t look the same. You need to remember and remind him that it should change as it develops as the friendship goes on. Even if you like the status and comfort of the friendship now, it can still be good as it grows and changes over time.
If a guy likes you and keeps showing the top signs that he wants to be in a romantic relationship with you, even after you’ve put him in the friend zone, be sure to be clear about your boundaries. You may need to seek relationship advice as to how to go about this. By articulating and enforcing your boundaries, you’re showing great respect for yourself and the friendship you don’t want to lose.
Why is my guy friend constantly tagging me on social media?
So, you’ve been hanging out with this guy friend for a while, but he’s recently started tagging you on social media pretty often. If this is the case, it’s a good sign that he likes you as more than just a friend. Often, if someone’s doing this, he’ll like your posts and engage with the things that you say on social media, too. That’s another subtle sign that a man likes you. Even if you’re hanging out the same amount and doing more or less the same things as always, the fact that he wants to share it on social media for everyone to see means he wants people to know that he’s paying attention to you and spend a lot of time with you. Social media is just one way that a guy interested in you might find excuses to engage with you.
As far as subtle signs he likes you go, subtle signs he likes are harder to analyze and dissect than direct communication. That said, if this is a shy guy instead of a more direct guy, this might be the only way he can think to communicate his feelings – especially if he’s afraid of rejection. Sending subtle signs, he likes you rather than overt signs, feels a lot safer when someone is afraid of rejection, after all. He might be trying to send this message because he wants to tell you that he has romantic feelings for you subtly. Or, subconsciously, he might be trying to warn off other guys who might otherwise want to get involved with you. Either way, it’s one of the signs he likes you more than a friend.
Particularly, this behavior is likely to fall into the category of subtle signs he likes you if it is in conjunction with other potential signs a man likes you. If it feels like he’s tagging you too much on social media, that’s a good sign that you both need to have a frank talk with him about where you both stand in terms of your romantic feelings for each other.
While social media is a great way to stay connected with friends, it shouldn’t be the only way you and your friends share your feelings. If you find that you’re posting more of or with each other on social media, it’s a great sign that there are deeper feelings involved. It’s likely one of the surefire signs he likes you more than a friend. If you’re showing the same patterns and behavior on social media, it could be another one of those unmistakable signs that you like him as more than just a friend, too. You can seek relationship advice from professional counselors to help you transition from friendship to relationship and get tips on how to make the relationship blossom.
How do I know if my guy friend likes me more than a friend?
First, how well do you know him? If it’s a guy you’ve known for a while, one of the ways you will be able to recognize even the more subtle signs he likes you will be that it’s a behavior change. Maybe, he’s talking to you differently, or he is initiating more physical contact, even if it’s as simple as brushing his hand against your arm or touching your shoulder. If he didn’t do those things before, it could certainly be that his feelings for you have grown. Sure, people love friends and affection toward their friends, but certain things differ from typical behavior in a platonic friendship. Those are the subtle signs he likes you to look out for.
If you find a guy displaying the general signs that a guy likes you as more than a friend, such as the fact that he pays attention to you or gazes at you a little bit longer than could be read as friendly, you might want additional confirmation. If you’re wondering if your guy friend has romantic feelings for you, one of the biggest signs he likes you is that his behavior is different. Maybe, he treats you differently than the rest of the friend group (even the other girls in it), or perhaps, he’s your best friend or long-term friend, and he’s started treating you differently over the years. If this is a guy who’s close to you, especially if you’re best friends, you will have a better understanding of his baseline behavior. His baseline behavior might be affectionate and expressive, or it might be the opposite. If he’s not normally affectionate or expressive, it’ll likely be easier to tell if the way he treats you is out of the ordinary.
Guys express that they like someone through various cues and actions, and of course, those cues and actions vary from person to person. If this is a guy you’ve known for quite some time, you’ll know if he treats you favorably or if the affection he shows you have increased. For example, if he’s a friendly or touchy-feely person all of the time, you’ll know that that’s typical for him and will know not to read into it too much. However, suppose the same person treats you differently than he treats others. In that case, maybe, he’s even more affectionate toward you, wants to spend time alone with you, focuses on you over others if you’re there, and he finds excuses to call and text you all of the time – it could very well be that he likes you. Of course, if you’re best friends, this could be a predicament of sorts. You don’t want to hurt him, but you also don’t want to risk your friendship.
Depending on various factors such as if you like him back, whether you do or don’t believe that being together would destroy the friendship, and so on, you’ll be able to make the right choice for you. Again, there’s no real way to avoid the chance that this could jeopardize your friendship or parts of it. That’s a definite risk, but there are nuances, and you get to make your own decisions. Sometimes, friends start dating and are together forever. Other times, friends start dating, break up, and can’t seem to move past it or patch it up. One thing that’s for sure is that a best friend will understand where you’re coming from if you’re not interested. Yes, it might be painful, but he’ll understand. If you’re seriously on the fence and the signs aren’t overt (for example, if he’s super friendly, but he isn’t showing physical signs of affection and isn’t alluding to the idea that he likes you in any ways that are obvious to you), you might wait until he tells you that he likes you to bring it up, or until his actions provide genuine confirmation.
This is another opportunity to reach out to a mental health provider who will be there for you if you want to talk through it without running the risk that what you say could get back to your friend. One of the best things about talking to a counselor or therapist is that they don’t have a dog in the fight and aren’t involved in your daily life. Maybe, you need a place to express your feelings and weigh the pros and cons. When you talk with a therapist, your information is confidential, and you don’t run the risk of what you say getting back to your guy friend.
How do you know if a guy secretly likes you?
You may be wondering if a guy you’re interested in secretly likes you. He might seem like he’s not interested and gives you mixed signals, but be aware of signs that he likes you. There are many signs he secretly likes you that you may not immediately notice. If you’re spending time together, look for body language signs. Possibly he tries to sit near you or finds excuses to touch you, like brushing up against your arm when you talk. This is a great sign that he likes you. If a guy secretly likes you, he may act differently around you than he does with other people. If you’re in a group setting, a guy who secretly likes you will gravitate towards you, giving you most of his attention compared to others. A guy who secretly likes you may even try to spend time with you alone. He will try to start conversations with you and ask you questions, remembering things you’ve told him in the past. If you’re friends on social media, a guy who secretly likes you will always stay updated on your profile, watching your stories and liking all of your photos.
It’s crucial to note that the above information can apply to all genders; someone who gravitates towards you and acts differently around you than with other people can mean that they like you, no matter what gender they are.
How do you know if someone likes you but is hiding?
If a guy secretly likes you and is trying to hide it, he won’t come out and say he likes you. It may seem like he’s giving you mixed signals sometimes, and you might feel confused and wonder if he secretly likes you or he’s not interested. There are ways to tell if a guy you’re interested in secretly likes you. You’ll have to look for body language signs that grab your attention. If you’re out with friends, he may always seem to be near you, getting close to you. If you’re having a conversation, a guy who secretly likes you will face you and may find reasons to touch you. He may get nervous in your presence, shy, or stumble on words when normally he seems very composed around others. If he seems uneasy around you, that’s a great sign he secretly likes you. Other signs a guy likes you would be if he doesn’t talk about other romantic partners in front of you and seems slightly jealous if you discuss partners you are seeing. Another sign that a guy likes you is if he is always there to help you whenever you have any problems. A guy who secretly likes you will go out of their way to help you find solutions.
How do you know if a guy secretly likes you through text?
You may be talking to a guy over text and feel unsure if he is into you. Possibly you feel he is sending mixed signals. There are some language signs he secretly likes you. He may find reasons to contact you often, or possibly he asks you to hang out. A guy that secretly likes you may make the conversations linger. He will ask you questions, trying to get to know you better. If a guy secretly likes you, he may try to grab your attention by texting your jokes to make you laugh, or he will laugh at things you say. If a guy likes you, he will respond quickly to your messages, never giving short answers. If you’re looking for signs that a guy likes you, and you also are interested in him, try being brave and telling him, or consider asking him out yourself. Dating can be stressful. If you’re experiencing any emotional stress from dating, talk to a trusted family member or friend for support. A licensed therapist is also a great tool for helping you cope with relationship issues.
How do you know if a guy finds you beautiful?
First of all, you are beautiful. Let’s get that out there. But you may be wondering if a particular guy finds you beautiful. A guy that secretly likes you and finds you beautiful will stare at you a lot. You may catch him looking at you from across the room, or maybe his eye contact lingers during the conversation. You may find him secretly checking you out when he thinks you’re not paying attention. Signs that a guy finds you beautiful include giving you compliments and hopefully asking you to hang out.
How do you tell if a guy finds you attractive?
If there’s a guy that you’re interested in and you’re wondering if he finds you attractive, pay attention to body language signs. Body language signs can show he secretly is interested in you. A guy who finds you attractive will put all his focus on you when you’re speaking and show open posture. He may mirror your behaviors and smile a lot while making eye contact. Besides body language, there are other signs that a guy finds you attractive. He may say nice things to you, give you a lot of compliments, or pay attention to you more than he does to other people around. A guy who finds you intellectually attractive will try to spend time with you, especially alone. He will text you often, trying to start conversations with you and it’s unlikely he’ll be playing games. These are all signs that he likes you and finds you attractive. Dating can be difficult, and rejection can be scary. If you’re dealing with relationship problems and living with esteem issues, you’re not alone. A licensed therapist can help. They can provide you with tools and guidance to improve your mental health and have better future relationships.
