Is It Okay To Send Goodnight Texts To Her If You’re Not In A Relationship?
Medically Reviewed By Tanya Harell, LPCNo doubt, text messages are an excellent tool for communication, especially in today’s fast-paced world. Advancements in technology have their advantages and disadvantages. In many ways, it has simplified some of the most complicated areas of life. But in others, it makes the simplest things seem complicated. Communication is at the bedrock of any kind of relationship, and text messages are one of the ways through which lots of people express their feelings to the people in their lives. They are so important and depending on how you use them; they can either help you strengthen the bond in your relationship. When it comes to dating or marital relationships, understanding how to express your feelings to your partner is very important. People who make conscious efforts to openly communicate with their partners stand a higher chance at building successful relationships.
For instance, when used correctly, texting can be very helpful for you to reach out and touch the heart of your partner or a love interest. However, texting is a simple act that can cause mass confusion in many ways. Sending texts is a convenient means of communication, but a text can also be misleading. Understanding the positives as well as negatives of texting will help you to know the best way to communicate with your loved ones. For this reason, people question themselves before sending certain text messages. The most common doubt-inducing text scenarios include:
- How long should you wait to send a text after the first date?
- Should you text or call after the initial exchange of phone numbers?
- Is it okay to text a co-worker about non-work issues?
- How long should you wait before replying to a text from someone you like?
These are only a few of the many questions that cross the minds of millions of people each day. One of the biggest questions regarding texting is one that many people ponder for hours before reaching a final decision. It’s one that you may view as relatively simple, but only if you’ve never been in this situation before. Many people wonder if it’s okay to send goodnight texts to someone if you’re just friends or not in a relationship. Why is this such a complicated issue for most people? It could be one of many reasons, but the most common is that the person sending the text may want to pursue something more than a friendship with the recipient.
Maintaining Friendships Via Text
Sometimes, there’s a plain and simple explanation for sending a good night text. You really value the friendship but are simply too busy to connect or see each other often. Trying to keep in touch with your friend who you do not see very often and maintaining the strong bond you both share can be very challenging for anyone. Juggling between attending to work demands, busy schedules and everyday demands — life can get in the way. A goodnight text is a simple but effective way to let your friend know that you’re thinking of them. Life’s complications can make keeping in touch with friends almost impossible. But the major advancements in technology provide tools that allow you to bridge the gap. Mobile devices and social media allow you to create a game plan that helps to maintain your friendships, regardless of distance. In just a few clicks, you can check up on your friends, send wishes and messages, or good-will texts to let them know they are on your mind.
If you have a friend that you value but can’t manage to see or talk with often, sending a goodnight text isn’t a bad idea. This way, you let your friend(s) know that regardless of the distance and busyness, they are still an integral part of your life. You may be surprised to know that a goodnight text helps to lift the spirits of a person who may have had a bad day and can’t fall asleep. It’s a nice feeling to know that you’re in someone’s thoughts, and a goodnight text is an ideal way to show you care, put a smile on their face and help them have a beautiful and peaceful sleep. Staying in touch with your long-distance friend is something that should not be taken lightly, especially if the friendship means a lot to you. Every friendship is unique and special; however, maintaining long-distance friendships require more time commitment compared to a friend who stays just around the corner or one you see frequently. One very effective way to make these friendships work and keep the good vibes alive is by perfecting your texting game.
To build and/or maintain your friendships through text messages and make them thrive, there are some key ingredients to put in place. First, it is important to have and show genuine interest in the other person and show sincere care for them. You can express this by asking questions about them, their interests, and their everyday life. You never know what is really going on in someone's life, and checking on them may just be what they need to brighten their day. Your message can make their mind be filled with beautiful thoughts that help them get over their heaviness and help them sleep well. Another thing is to try your best to be consistent and reliable in your interactions with your friend. The other things in your life calling for your attention can make it easy to cut off communication abruptly, especially when it comes to texts. The other person should be able to count on you not to just ‘ghost’ on them. Being deliberate about keeping in touch can be as easy as punching in thoughtful words on your phone keyboard and sending to your friends. Here below are some text message scenarios to revive or maintain your friendship via texts:
- Tell them you miss them. If you both haven’t seen each other in a while, you can send them a message like “I miss you. What’s new?” Although this may seem too simple, it is important to know that even the simple things mean a lot would mean a lot to your friend when done from the heart. When you ask them what’s new, you are allowing them to set or redirect the tone of communication. They may either chastise you for not reaching out or returning their calls or return the gesture and tell you they miss you too. They may attempt to give you a rundown of the many things that have been happening in their life. At some point, the conversation may need to go beyond texting, and they may try to schedule a meet-up, maybe over lunch. Regardless of how far apart you and this person may be physically, reaching out to see how they're doing and being genuinely interested in catching up will not go unnoticed. And the gesture will be appreciated. It helps your friend to know that they are on your mind and you are committed to staying connected to them, despite the distance and the gap in communication.
- Apologize for not staying in touch, and ask how they have been. Between juggling the many things calling for your attention — school, career, family and life demands in general — it may be difficult to stay in touch with a friend who isn’t so physically accessible as compared to someone you see regularly. It is not a bad thing to get real and admit the fact that you’ve been far away. You should be able to be honest with your friend, right? Don’t be scared to admit or take responsibility for the breach in communication. Maybe you couldn’t keep up with staying in touch. Or maybe you weren't responsive to their attempts to connect because you got too busy or you were going through some challenges in life. Whatever the reason is that made you pull back or drop the ball in the friendship, admitting your fault to your friend and making them know you are sorry is a thoughtful thing to do. It is a different thing if you drop the ball repeatedly, and you abuse this approach by constantly sending “I’m sorry” messages. Then the apologies would be considered insincere, feel fake, and hollow. However, if you are the type of friend who usually keeps in touch but life just got in the way, your apology would feel genuine. This would then be a great way to reconnect with your friend. Asking them how things have been could make them like feel you aren’t just trying to ‘report in’ but are genuinely interested in conversing.
- Send amusing videos or memes to make them laugh. One good thing about humor and laughter is that it connects you to the initiator almost instantly. Sending hilarious videos or memes to your friend can help you build a sort of bonding. It is important to be careful while doing this though, because sending funny messages to someone you are not so close to or you are typically out of touch with can feel weird. But if you send to a friend who you have always shared some level of bond with and you feel the meme or video would make them laugh, then by all means, send it as a means of reconnecting. There is a way funny videos and memes can help distract us from the busyness and challenges of everyday life. Sometimes, our friends may have been going through a tough time or may have been busy or stressed. Sharing good moments of laughter especially at the end of a hectic day may be just what they need to light up their mood and look forward to the new day ahead with hope and enthusiasm.
- Remind them of beautiful memories you had together. Reminiscing on beautiful moments you have shared together has a way of bringing people closer. Although those times are in the past, they still carry unforgettable memories for both of you. Getting a text message like “Hey, remember one time we did such and such together…?” from a friend is a super fun way to take a trip down memory lane. You can also send them some beautiful old pictures of both of you to remind them of all your epic memories. When you send this sort of message, it tells them that you are thinking of them fondly and are reminiscing about the good times you both shared. These sort of messages give depth to a friendship and will most certainly put a smile on their face.
Understanding A Goodnight Text
Here are a few goodnight texts to consider if you’re not in a relationship:
1. Hey! Just checking on you, I know you had a big day today.
Checking on friends is what friends do, right? Sending a text at the end of the day to find out how your friend’s day went is a good way to say good night to them. If it wasn’t a good day, you may be able to send words of inspiration to help them end their day on a positive note.
2. I know we haven’t had a chance to chat lately, but I hope you’ve had a great day.
This one could be considered as the goodnight apology type text. It’s a way of apologizing for not keeping in touch but lets them know that you’re thinking of them. Most friends understand that life gets chaotic and just because friends don’t talk every day, doesn’t make the friendship any less valuable.
3. Try to get some rest tonight.
Sometimes, a friend may be overwhelmed with the details of life. A goodnight text could encourage them to get some much needed rest. It’s a way of showing that you’re concerned about them and want them to take care of themselves.
4. Call me in the morning.
The “call me in the morning” text is a common one that implies that the day has come to an end, and you look forward to speaking with them tomorrow. Friends often ask other friends to call them. This is a text exchange that occurs between friends or in relationships.
5. I know today was a busy one. We’ll talk tomorrow.
This goodnight text shows consideration to the recipient. It’s a way of acknowledging that their busy schedule may have prevented the two of you from talking today, but tomorrow may present a different opportunity.
Here are a few good night texts to consider if you are interested in more than a friendship:
1. I can’t wait to talk to you tomorrow.
This text shows your desire to connect with the recipient the next day. It sets the stage for something more than just a friendship.
2. You’re always on my mind at the beginning and end of each day.
Once you’ve decided to let your friend know that you want more than a friendship, this text is a great door opener. It’s important that you be prepared for their response to be one of acceptance or rejection.
3. Texting to say good night because I’ve been thinking of you all day.
Stop torturing yourself, and let your friend know how you really feel. If you’ve caught feelings for your friend, let them know. Keep in mind that true friends are rare. If you feel it will jeopardize your friendship, take precaution in the way you approach this conversation.
4. Going through old pics and found this one of us. We would make a cute couple.
If you want to know what your friend thinks about the possibility of a relationship with you, this text could be the best way to get an answer. Their reply would reveal if they think that there is a possibility for more than just a friendship. It’s ideal to send this as a goodnight text, because it prevents the remainder of the day from being awkward for the both of you.
5. I’m tired of spending my nights without you.
If a blunt approach is your thing, this goodnight text is for you. Let your friend know that you have romantic feelings for them by sharing this in a text. They may feel the same way but could be waiting on you to initiate the conversation.
The Misinterpretation of Text Messages
There is a huge misrepresentation in text messages because there is no emotion in texting. In-person communication works better for some people. This is especially true if there are issues or trouble in the relationship. In most cases, text messages are more liable to be misunderstood or misinterpreted because they cannot accurately convey tone, facial expressions, body language, emotions, eye contact, or oral speech.
The lack of tone in texts has caused some relationships and friendships to suffer hardships. How can you prevent misinterpretation in texts? It may not be possible to prevent it entirely, but there are ways to decrease the chances that a goodnight text is misinterpreted.
Here are a few tips to help ensure that your texts aren’t misinterpreted.
Keep the texts simple. Always strive to send a simple message that’s easy to understand. Keep sentences short to prevent any degree of uncertainty in what you want to say. Simple words and sentences help increase the probability that your text won’t be misinterpreted. It may not make sense to send long and engaged sentences because they will could be misunderstood.
Be careful with abbreviations. Although text messages are mostly expected to be brief, it is however important to use basic terms and especially abbreviations that people are familiar with. You will most likely run yourself into hot water and out people off during conversations if you are used to making up your own terms or abbreviations or using uncommon ones.
Use basic vocabulary. If you’re a person that normally uses an extensive vocabulary, save it for the in person conversations. Text messages aren’t a good platform for big words and technical vocabulary. Over complicated words or jargons is how some people fail to understand what others mean in their text messages.
Be brief and accurate. Conciseness is the core of clarity. This is a good rule of thumb to follow when sending a text, email, or other written messages. Always be brief and to-the-point. Avoid the use of needless words, sentences, and clauses.
Don’t forget to spell check. It’s common for people to hit the send button on a text message without reading it over. This is especially important if you want to impress the person you’re texting. It may not be perceived well if you misspell several of the words in your message. While spellcheck is important, there is some research that indicates a few misspelled words could help to deliver the intended message more effectively.
It is also helpful to consider the 5 C’s of effective communication. It is always important to maintain quality communication with your friends, whether you’re romantically involved or not. The 5 C’s of communication are applicable in verbal and written communication.
Concreteness displays strength in texting. It helps you to send a solid message to the recipient. This is the type of message that is usually supported by solid facts. It prevents the text from sounding too vague and adds meaning to it.
Coherence ensures that the message remains on target. Most misinterpretations occur because of the inconsistency in text messages. The recipient should have no problem understanding the details of the text.
Completion is necessary for effective communication, even texting. If you have a habit of sending incomplete texts, you likely experience many occurrences where your texts are misunderstood. Be sure to provide any relevant information when sending a text message. Completion in texts enhances the communication and prevents the need for the recipient to assume certain things.
Clarity is the most obvious “C,” as it is important to be clear in your message. When sending a good night text to her, use words that you typically use when speaking with them in person. When all else fails, remember the common rule and just keep it simple.
Courtesy is a trait that all messages should display. If the recipient can clearly see that you’re being kind, they may be more receptive of the message, and maintain a positive outlook.
Summary
Text communication is a convenience in many situations, but it can put a strain on some relationships. If you’re at a crossroads in the relationship or friendship, it may be best to talk in person. This prevents the situation from becoming worse due to misinterpretation of a text.
If you’re in a place where you’ve found it difficult to communicate with others outside of texting, you may want to talk with a therapist to overcome those difficulties. Texting should be complementary to other forms of communication and not the sole means of communication between friends. When you feel a friend is going through something serious, pick up the phone and call if you can’t be there for them. However, sending a goodnight text can help to keep a casual or romantic friendship afloat.
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Is it okay to send a goodnight text to someone you aren’t dating?
It’s more than okay to send a goodnight text to someone you aren’t dating, but the context and word choice matter. If you’re flirting with someone but aren’t dating, you can use one of the good night text ideas in the article above to wish your crush a perfect night and sweet dreams. Good night love messages, good will messages, birthday wishes and a message that expresses admiration, good morning love messages, plain ‘good night, sleep tight’ messages, official information messages, new year messages, etc., are some of the most common text message scenarios. Amongst all these, goodnight text messages stand in a world of their own. Whether you are sending romantic good night messages for your boyfriend or girlfriend, anniversary messages for your wife or husband, you are wishing your girlfriend good night and sleep tight, or you are sending good morning messages to your crush, or an “I miss you, goodnight” message to your best friend, you almost cannot do without text messages. However, the phrases you can use are nearly endless. Whether it’s simple, intricate, playful, or romantic, it’s a kind gesture that shows that you care about someone.
What are some flirty good night texts to send your crush?
Where you might send a romantic good night text like “sleep well my love” to a partner, it’s best to keep it sweet and simple with a crush. Some sweet good night messages are, “I hope that you had a restful sleep,” “sleep tight,” “sweet dreams,” “wishing a sweet night to a sweet girl,” “I hope you have the sweetest dreams,” or “good night and sweet dreams.” Some people even tease their crush a little bit by saying, “close your eyes,” “it’s night! Get some sleep,” or “go to bed.”
If you’re talking back and forth and things have been progressing into a more romantic or flirty dynamic, you can make your sweet good night messages a little more flirtatious. You can wish a person you’re flirting with a sweet good night by saying, “I hope that you have wonderful dreams, sweet girl,” or “I can’t wait to see you soon! Goodnight, gorgeous.”
How can I tell if someone likes me over text?
Unless someone tells you they like you directly, it can be hard to tell if someone likes you over text. You might wonder if they’re interested or just friendly. If the person sends you sweet good night messages such as, “good night, handsome,” “good night darling” or “good night sweetheart,” however, there’s a solid chance that they like you. Especially if their good night message is paired with a heart emoji or anything similar, it’d seem that they’re wearing their heart on their sleeve and could be trying to start a flirtatious relationship with you. A ton of people are affectionate with their friends, but calling you “handsome” or “darling” alludes to something more. If they frequently use sweet sayings or give you compliments, it’s another potential sign, though compliments themselves aren’t always meant flirtatiously. Some people are more affectionate than others, but often, you’ll be able to pick up hints from the text messages you receive, especially if you witness the way this person speaks to others.
What are some romantic ways to say goodnight?
Words can do a lot for a relationship, especially if your partners love language is words of affirmation. And, who wouldn’t love a good night message from the one they love to end their day? If you’re dating someone, you’ll likely want to send them a sweet good night message or romantic goodnight texts from time to time. Here are some romantic phrases you can use to say goodnight:
“Sleep well my love.”
“Good night to the love of my life. I hope that you sleep well and have lovely dreams.”
“It feels so amazing knowing that you are mine. Goodnight and sleep tight my love.”
“The stars at night can’t compare to your beauty. I can’t wait to wake up next to you every day and spend the rest of my life with you.”
Can’t stop thinking about you my love. I hope you know how truly special you are. Good night my princess”
“Sending you love and sweet dreams!”
“I love you more with each passing day. Good night my sweet prince.”
“Good night my love. I hope I get to see you in my dreams tonight”
“Good night darling.”
“I hope you’re dreaming of beautiful things just like you. Good night love.”
“Good night dear. I hope you get a good night’s rest and that you have the best dreams!”
“Good night my angel.”
“I hope you have dreams as beautiful as you are.”
“I hope that your dreams are as wonderful as you.”
“Good night my queen.”
“The brightness of the day is not strong as the brightness that you carry. Goodnight love!”
“I love you good night to the best girlfriend in the world.”
“Goodnight sweetheart.”
“Look up to the sky and see how the stars are dancing and showcasing my deepest love for you. Good night.” – Author unknown
“Goodnight! I love you darling”
“Goodnight honey. I hope you have the most lovely dreams.”
“Good night to the most beautiful woman in the world.”
A classic “goodnight love” or “I love you good night” is always sweet as well. A romantic good night text does not always have to be intricate. A simple, candid message or display of affection can be just as sweet. If you spent the day together and want to say good night afterward, you can say something like, “I had the most wonderful time with you tonight. I hope your dreams are as sweet as you are,” “Good night my queen; I can’t wait to see you again,” or “Today was perfect. Goodnight, babe.”
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, or if you are flirting with someone from a distance and things have progressed to a point where your conversations are increasingly romantic, one thing you can say is, “look up at the way the moon shines each night; isn’t it cool that we’re looking at the same moon no matter how far away we are?” It’s a wildly sweet good night text for people who can’t necessarily be together in person, and it can remind you that you’re not so far away after all. When you go to say “I love you good night,” you can also say something along the lines of, “Good night love. I can’t wait to spend day and night with you soon.”
What are some love quotes to use over text?
If it gets to the point that you’re dating someone and you want to send them love quotes because things have progressed to that point, here are some ideas for love quotes to use:
“You brighten my world.”
“I need no assurance of our love because I feel it deep in my soul.”
“Your beauty cant be hidden.”
“Building a relationship like ours is creating a rare gem called love.”
“Love loves to love love.” – James Joyce
“We all love love, but true love is one in a million. I’m so grateful to have you.”
“I love you like roses love rain, like walking together down memory lane. Sleep tight darling.”
“Life with you is everlasting joy.”
“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” – Dr. Seuss
“There’s no one else I’d rather spend the rest of my life with.”
“When it comes to our love, the beauty can’t be hidden.”
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle
“You’re the love of my life. Thank you for being you.”
“My biggest fear is losing you.”
“Close your eyes, fall in love, stay there.” – Rumi
“I looked into your eyes and found my favorite color.”
“I have the deepest love for you.”
“I’m happy not just because I am in love, but because it is with you.” – Author unknown
“I wish I could protect you from anyone with bad intentions. I love you.”
“Life feels incomplete without you.”
“I’ve never experienced happiness quite like what I feel when I’m bringing you closer to my arms and closer to my love.”
Make sure the love quotes you pick are appropriate to the stage of your relationship. A lot of people love love quotes, but it’s important that they’re not over the top in comparison to where you’re at in the partnership. Love quotes where you call someone your true love are best reserved for someone you’ve been dating for a while, and it is crucial that, if you call someone your true love over text, you’ve already said “I love you” to them in person. The first “I love you” is a special moment in any partnership, and you want to reserve it for when you’re face to face if at all possible.
What are some sweet good night texts to send a girl?
If you don’t know where you stand romantically with a girl and want her to receive a sweet good night text from you that could go either way, there are a variety of sweet good night texts you can use. Here are some great good night texts ideas that are sweet, but not over the top:
“I hope that you have wonderful dreams and a wonderful night.”
“I hope you get a good night’s sleep!”
“May your dreams be kind tonight.”
“I hope your night is filled with thoughts of good luck and pleasant dreams.”
“I hope you sleep well and have the most wonderful night!”
“I hope that you have the most pleasant dreams tonight!”
If she likes you back, she’ll be impressed and will likely find a good night text endearing. Pay attention to the way she replies, and the way she texts you or talks to you in general. If a girl brushes your arm during a conversation, uses a pet name when she talks to you, or says something flirtatious in return to your good night message, it’s a sign that she’s likely into you. Another great thing to do for a girl that you like is to compliment her. For example, you may tell her that she’s beautiful and smart, or beautiful strong and intelligent. It’s especially meaningful for many people to hear compliments that aren’t just appearance-based as well as compliments that are specific, so keep that in mind.
What are some sweet good morning text ideas?
If you want to send a sweet good morning text to someone you’re flirting with but aren’t dating, “good morning,” “I hope you got a good night’s rest,” or “good morning, beautiful” are great options. You can also say, “good morning! It’s time to make today a great one,” with a heart emoji to help her start her day on a positive note. If she has a boring conference, daily routine, or mundane daily activities to attend to that you know she isn’t looking forward to, you can say, “Good morning, love! Let me know how the day goes.” If possible, you might also let her know that you planned something fun for her to look forward to later, even if it’s something small like a nice dinner at home and some wine.
If you’re in a serious relationship and want to say something particularly affectionate, you might say, “good morning, my love! I’m so proud to get to spend the rest of my life with you and look forward to all of our good times together. Thank you for being mine.” Especially if you are temporarily apart or in a long distance relationship, she’ll think that you’re the most romantic in the world. You can also say something like, “your beauty can’t be hidden by distance,” “good morning! So sad that I missed your sleeping face, but I know I’ll get to see it for the rest of my life soon. Sending you hugs and kisses.” or “I can’t wait for the day that I get to hold you all night long.” A good morning text will bring you closer and remind your sweet lady that you love her, even if it’s impossible to bring you closer to one another physically at the moment. For good morning messages for your wife, you can send something like “waking up beside you every morning is one of my daily reminders that my life is beautiful. Good morning my darling, and have an amazing day.” You may go deeper and say “My mornings are lit up by two incredible things. The sun, and your amazing kisses. I could never have enough of you. I love you so much. Good morning darling.”
Is it weird to say goodnight to a friend over text?
The short answer is that no, it’s not weird to send a good night text or simple goodnight messages to a friend. Many friends do that, especially close friends or best friends. It’s all about context. Good night text messages for friend relationships are often along the lines of “night, “sweet dreams, “I hope you sleep well,” “good night,” “night! Can’t wait to hang out tomorrow,” or “get some sleep, my friend,” so none of these things will appear to be out of the ordinary. Most of the time, if a friend sends a good night text, it’s because you two were already talking. It’s less common to say good night out of context in a friendship, whereas for couples, it’s common to send a romantic good night text like, “good night my love,” “good night my queen,” or “I hope you get a good night’s rest, babe.”
Here are some ideas for ways to say goodnight to a friend over text:
“I can’t wait to see you soon! Goodnight!”
“Just to tell you you are on my mind. I hope you have a beautiful night”
“I hope you get a good night’s rest.”
“I can’t wait to spend time with you and catch up soon. Night!”
“I hope you have the best dreams! Goodnight.”
Good night text messages don’t need to be complicated, especially if they’re to a friend. You can even go with a funny goodnight GIF or meme to make your friend smile. Depending on the relationship you have with a friend, the good night text messages you send might vary a bit.
What are some good night texts to make her smile after a date?
After a date that went well, you’ll likely want to send a girl a follow up text of some kind. Don’t be nervous, and don’t go over the top. You aren’t in a relationship yet; you just want to let her know that you enjoyed the day’s activities with the hope of spending more time with her again soon. If you’re comfortable, you can say something like, “You’re so beautiful and I enjoyed our date tonight,” or you can go with, “I enjoyed our conversation over dinner and would love to do that again soon.” You can also simply ask her if she would like to go on a second date. Wish her the best dreams, and if you’re interested in her, let her know that you’d like to go out again. It can be nerve-racking, but it’s worth it to pursue someone when you feel a connection and have mutual attraction.
How do you text a girl goodnight?
Everyone is busy, so calling straightforward is not always ideal. Some guys hardly bother to check, they text anyway, and the girl often feels bugged. If you intend to text someone at all, it is better if you considered asking her when she wants to text to avoid being a pest or putting her off an activity.
Your best bet is in the night. If you want to avoid being the guy that sends an unsatisfactory text at busy hours, you may consider texting late in the evening. At this time, she’s probably free from work, chores, or school, and the conversation could keep going. She’s settled, and her mind can focus on the conversation without interruptions.
First text? No stress. If you want to text her goodnight for the first time, simplicity is key. You don’t need to use something too personal like “goodnight, my love,” “sleep tight, my love,” because this is the very beginning. All you need is a casual “sweet dreams,” “good night wishes,” or “I hope you have amazing dreams.” This could be a way to initiate constant texting with her, so you don’t want to ruin your chances.
Don’t flirt except when you’re sure she’s into it. Flirting with her in goodnight messages is great only when you’re sure she likes you. Even if she does, doing it all the time makes it boring. Spice up your text with a summary of general stuff so that it doesn’t appear as though you’re only interested in the romantic aspect.
Create memories with your text. Seek to create a bond between you and her even if you’re still at the ‘messages for friends’ phase. Tell her about a favorite stuff, like a song, movie, or place. in doing this, you’re giving her a reason to remember that you mentioned it in your good night messages.
Use emoticons in your text. After your text, ensure that you add the appropriate emoji. However, you don’t want to be offensive here.
How do I greet my girlfriend goodnight?
When you decide to greet your girlfriend goodnight, you intend to have her fall asleep with thoughts of you. Showing love to your partner is not reserved for only Valentine’s Day, so a nightly reminder is fitting. You may consider finding fond memories in addition to something endearing. If you keep it as simple as, ‘good night love’ or ‘beautiful dreams, my love’, it may sound too plain for her.
What you want to do is to send texts in moderation so that you don’t become so predictable. Also, you may consider switching between regular text messages to social media texts and memes and loving gifs. The important element is that the words you say or type come from your heart and are honest. Women have a more intuitive side than men, so if you’re not genuine with your words, she might sense it. A good night message could take diverse forms; some of these are;
Good night my princess
Night sweet girl.
Hey love. Wishing you were here by my side. Good night, sleep tight.
Good night good soul
Blankets are warm, pleasant dreams, darling.
You’re dreaming of beautiful treasure, night dear.
These kinds of messages foster the bond between you and your pattern.
How do you say goodnight in a romantic way?
We all have our busy days, and at the end of such days, all you want to do is fall into bed. As a result of this, it is easy to fall into a pattern of forgetting to wish your partner good night, especially when the desperation to get some sleep sets in. No matter how tired you are, sending good night messages is an important way of staying in touch or communicating with them.
An expressive way of sending love messages without using the words is staying awake until your partner is ready to sleep. This way, both of you can fall asleep together and enjoy the connection of the last moments of your day. If you prefer a text, short texts like ‘Good night, my princess,’ ‘Sweet night darling,’ are good.
Sending romantic good night messages to your partner goes a long way and makes their memory of you more endearing and meaningful. If you have to sleep without your partner because they’re on a journey or you work separate shifts, writing them love messages is another option.
Why do we say goodnight?
Seeking the original reason behind this does not give a clear-cut answer, but some people believe it’s a nice thing to do. Others call it courtesy, but the reason we do this is personal. Whatever the reason is, it is a means of maintaining good communication with our partner. Or, if you are parting ways until the following day, it is a way of wishing them a restful night and communicating that you love them. These are some ways to say good night romantically;
Using words. If you are a poet, lucky you, but if you’re not, you may consider looking for short quotes or sweet sayings to make your partner feel special before they go on to dreamland. They can be familiar with “good night, my dear, good night, my princess, good night, my sweet, etc.,” so you want to consider something new and original.
Besides the originality, your delivery counts too. Whisper it sweet. You may get creative by making it into a rhyme or song that you can repeat a couple of times. Although you may have personal pick-up lines, here are some more;
- I wish you a peaceful slumber
- Relax and unwind, my love.
- Good night; hope you have beautiful dreams
- Wishing you the sweetest sleep
- Close your eyes, love, rest easy.
- Without you, I feel incomplete; sweet dreams, my love.
Using Actions. People feel love through words and actions, so the more you act, the more they feel. Through your simple actions, you can show someone how much you care about them.
- Drop a sweet note on their pillow with love quotes.
- Write them a short poem or rhyme for the night
- Rub their back as they slip into sleep
- Treat them to bed-roll back cover, slippers, and a sleeping robe
How do you wish someone a special good night?
There are several ways to say something to someone. What you need is to know the right way to go and the words to use. You may consider sending goodnight texts to your special person, but how you feel about them may impact the texts’ content. Sometimes you may spend time figuring out the right words to put together but putting your feelings in words could be simple. You may consider the following;
- Good night lovely
- Sweet goodnight to you
- Good night wishes
- Have a peaceful sleep!
Texting is an excellent means of expression, even when you don’t see people face to face. It’s nice to look forward to good night messages from your special someone. It fosters a feeling of security and sincerity. If you’d rather send short sentences, some of them may include;
- As you drift off to sleep, remember that you’re special to me.
- Hey beautiful girl, I hope you have a peaceful sleep.
- Good night, most beautiful girl/ most handsome guy.
- The night sky reminds me of your beautiful shine.
- No matter how soft your blankets are, they’re not as special as you are to me!
- My night is sweet with thoughts of you. Sweet dreams!
How can I make her fall in love with me through a message?
Be a good listener. Listening to a girl through texts is a powerful way of connecting with her. Allow her to tell her story and be ready to listen and not judge. To tell you her story at all, it means she respects and trusts you already. Those values are some of the basis of love.
Text her friends. You’re doing this because you want to be closer to her friends. By being friendly with her friends, you will be able to discover more about her. Her friends could also help her know more about you; that way, you’re killing two birds with a stone.
Give her attention. Yes, it may be an online platform, but she still wants attention. A girl loves to be heard, so when she has your attention, she sees you as someone she’s safe with. How do you do this? Reply to her messages as soon as you get them. Text her but ask before you do.
How do I text my crush goodnight?
Saying good night could be a tricky business, especially when it comes to your crush. Fortunately, mobile phones make the process a lot easier. However, before texting your crush goodnight, you may want to consider your approach. If you’re only seeking friendship, keep it casual. But if you want to take it to the next level, try something creatively romantic.
Keep it simple. Good night messages are as simple as “good night,” which could go a long way. If you may see them soon, you can keep it at “see you tomorrow.” You may lighten up the night’s sleep with emoji.
Text them videos with relaxing vibes. The internet is filled with interesting and relaxing videos that you could send to your crush at night. It could be an animal compilation video or something they’re interested in. Overall, it is the thought that counts.
Memes, gifs, or relatable pictures. The focus is to build a clear and mutual connection, so you want to keep it at that. Find funny pictures and gifs to express yourself accurately. For example, if they’re preparing for bed, you can send a gif of a yawning baby in response. If they can’t fall asleep, send a gif of a mother rocking a child to sleep.
What can I say instead of a good night?
People love when you get creative at doing things, and girls are not left behind. There are several creative ways to text a girl without saying the words exactly. First, you may send a calm and relaxing song to put her to sleep. You can add a personal touch if you know some of their favorite songs. Messaging apps like Snapchat make night wishes sweeter.
What’s a sweet goodnight message?
A sweet good night message is quite similar to birthday wishes or new-year wishes in that they’re filled with sweet thoughts. “I looked at the night sky, and I thought of you” “Your thoughts are warm, and your mind is all I’m drawn to.” There’s a lot you could say, and you can send them their favorite quotes from a movie, favorite line in a song, or even better, create a series of specialized texts for them.
How do you say I love you in a cute way?
I’m in love with you. The phrase is more intense than “I love you.”
You’re the love of my life. A declarative phase. It implies that a person wants to be with only you.
I love you to the moon and back. The phrase is quite famous and maybe used in both romantic and non-romantic contexts.
I’m crazy about you. This is very modern, and it involves clarification for some persons, but the phrase is quite expressive.
I’m head over heels for you. I’m totally in love with you, and I’m not looking for anyone else.
You’re my other half. This is a way to tell someone they complete you, and it’s quite personal.
Impress them by saying the words in another language. Try French or Spanish; it has a romantic ring. If they have a native language, try speaking their language.
How do I keep her interested through text?
Tease her. When you’re texting a girl you like, don’t be afraid to bring some fun in a good-natured way. Teasing makes her laugh and shows her you’re not some stuck-up guy. Again, it can reflect confidence and build attraction.
Make fun of yourself. A sure way to getting a girl’s smile over text messages or keeping her interested is by making fun of yourself. Careful here; it is not some self-depreciation game. You’re doing it in a way that makes her feel safe to let her guard down.
Guess her answers. This is a great way to fire up the texting and spice things up. It clearly makes you different from other guys, especially when you do it cheekily. E.g.
‘What are you doing for the weekend?’
‘Hanging with friends right?’
Let her know you have her in mind. Telling a girl that you remembered her brings butterflies to the belly. To her, it’s a great compliment. Saying something like, “I just saw your Facebook update, I found it refreshing and nice, etc.” makes her feel like you do have her in mind. Statements like that will keep you in her mind too and create feelings of attraction.
Avoid appearing flirty. Yes, you want her to know you’re interested, but you want to avoid doing it in an obvious manner. Flirting all the time makes you appear unserious.
Pick an interesting topic of discussion. The right kind of conversation keeps anyone interested. If you desire to keep a girl that way, choose a topic that is not too common. It may be related to something she has interests in, like movies, food, or a place. Not the usual, ‘so, what are you up to?’
Avoid asking the same things many times. Honestly, asking the same questions over and over is a sure-fire way to kill a conversation. When you do this, she will lose interest. Some girls may even find it creepy since reactions are often relative.
Don’t invade her privacy. If she sets a line about certain conversations, don’t cross it. She will appreciate your effort at respecting her decisions and may end up spilling her feelings for you. Text her only when it’s appropriate; if she takes longer to reply, don’t send some more.
What can I say to make her fall in love?
Approaching a girl with a love interest is almost a tricky situation for most guys because they don’t want to come too hard. It could be simple if it starts with the right conversation. While it is good to remain genuine, the only way you can express your intentions to a woman is by talking to her and through your actions. Since you want to remain original, come prepared for the conversation. Educate yourself but avoid starting with personal topics.
Compliment her. Whether you’re texting her or talking to her in person, compliment her. Your words are powerful, so carefully pick them and take note of her physical appearance. Also, speak about her intelligence, presence, and humor. When she knows you’re genuine with your comments, she will feel comfortable.
Build a connection. Every girl who falls in love recognizes the ‘click’ or ‘connection’ they felt with their partner. Such connections in true love are not limited to actions alone; they are set in place through words. When you want to know about a person, you learn to express your emotions verbally. With such traits and a physical attraction, love comes naturally. There’s nothing else you can do than be true about your feelings in your words.
How can I win her heart through chatting?
Be different. Bear in mind that you’re probably not the only guy chatting with her. She’s a beautiful girl and has seen a lot of “Hey, what’s up?” “You have beautiful eyes,” so you want to avoid being a regular chatter. Check through her profile, and try to connect with something. Be original and natural about it; you’d find the attraction building up in no time.
Allow her to fill in the blanks. As you start the conversation, you see that your mind is filled with a lot of stuff about yourself but avoid falling for it. Girls don’t appreciate guys that are too forward, so you want to tone down on the aggressive pursuit. Add a little mystery to the equation, and she’d love it.
Text her at night. A girl may be quick to pick up information about you based on how you text her. If you don’t reach out at night, she will figure out that you’re busy working or doing something serious with your day. If you text in the day, she might figure you to be the ‘party-all-night’ type. Texting at night is safer since you want to consider the fact that she might be working too. However, do your texting earlier in the night so that you don’t rob her of sleep.
Make good jokes. Too often, women are surrounded by men who have a hard time showing their confidence. You may not know, but the ability to make a joke is quite appealing to girls. After all, everyone loves a good laugh. There is a line in being rude and making a joke. You don’t want to cross that.
Show her you pay attention to details. Girls appreciate a guy that pays attention to details. Mostly, guys focus on themselves so much that they allow simple information to slip by. The tip here is to find ways to connect what she told you before with emerging details. A girl is happy when a guy makes a mental note of things they share.
Ask about the big things. Big things ultimately translate to the things that matter to her, like family, work, passion, friends, etc. this makes the girl feel important while allowing you to talk about something different. When you let girls talk about themselves, they usually tell you more than you could ask for, which could turn it into a long-term conversation.
What do you say in a goodnight text?”
People have a lot of things in mind when creating night messages for friends or lovers. Since you can send night wishes to anyone, the text’s recipient may determine the content of the texts. If you are saying good night to a loved one, you can say;
- Sweet dreams, my love
- Sleep well, my love.
- Good night sweet
- Sleep tight, my love.
- Good night my princess
- I’ll see you in my sleep tonight.
- Good night my love; sleep tight.
- When I looked at the night sky, your thoughts came to mind. Good night.
- The stars in the sky watch over my sweet girl tonight.
- You’re dreaming of me tonight; sleep tight, my love.
