6 Fun Things To Do At Home As A Couple

While going out on a date can certainly be a good time, there are many things you can do for entertainment without having to leave the house. Here are some cute things to do for your girlfriend or boyfriend at home to enjoy some quality time with them.

1. Watch Movies & TV Shows

In fact, it’s quicker to pick and join one than actually traveling to a movie theater, and most likely cheaper too.

Whether you missed out on something when it was in theaters or on the air, or you feel like “binge-watching” something, this is easily one of the easiest ways to have fun at home as a couple. Additionally, if you find something bad, you won’t need to feel like you’ve wasted your money – you can switch it to something else.

2. Cook Together

Although there are many relationships where both partners can cook, some have one person doing all of the cooking, or none at all. Perhaps you prefer to order food or dine out often. Nonetheless, if this sounds like either of you, you and your partner might find enjoyment by learning how to cook with each other.

Cooking can be extremely enjoyable for many individuals, but some people don’t like it. However, it’s possible that they just never allowed themselves to improve their culinary skills, and they are just discouraged by their current ability (or lack thereof) to cook. On the other hand, If you’re the one in the relationship who can cook a decent meal, give your partner some words of encouragement, and continue to make things together. Even if it doesn’t turn out to be a gourmet dish, there’s a good chance you both will still have fun in the process and learn how to be better communicators. This can also lead to increased intimacy, which is always a good thing. [1]

Cooking together can also save you a ton of money, not only by eating from restaurants but also from other activities. If you both find that you enjoy cooking as a hobby, you can avoid spending on other forms of entertainment outside of the home. This doesn’t mean that you should stop going out entirely, but if you think you can financially benefit from finding alternatives at home, you should consider cooking as one of them.

3. Play Video Games

Video games sometimes have an outdated reputation as being immature. Still, statistics show that it is becoming much more acceptable, especially as millennials are now in their 20s, 30s, and even pushing closer to 40. These individuals grew up with video games and watched it evolve over the years to what it has become today.

According to the Pew Research Center, approximately 43 percent of all adults in the United States play games on their computers, on a console, or a mobile device, like a phone or tablet. Although this is an estimate for all adults, the statistics vary greatly based on age groups. For example, in the 18 to 29 age group, 72 percent of men and 49 percent of women play video games, whereas, in the 50 to 64 age range, 34 percent of men and 29 percent of women do so. [2]

Despite these differences, these statistics show that gaming is diverse; no matter how young or old you are or what your gender is, it’s a popular way to have fun, and it can allow you to bond with your partner at home. Like music, there are many different genres of games, so there is a lot to choose from, but there is something for everyone.

4. Try Card & Board Games

Now, if you and your significant other aren’t typically a big fan of video games, you can also opt for more traditional games like the card and board ones.

Card games can in various formats; for example, you have popular trading card games that you can choose from, or you can go for the ordinary playing cards used for games like poker, blackjack, to name a couple. There are plenty of 2-player games out there that can help beat the boredom.

While there are board games made for two players, there are fewer of them than card games. Nonetheless, board games are often more enjoyable when there are a few players. If you’re having trouble finding a game that’s suitable for a couple, try finding something that you can do as a group; have a double-date night at your house. Board games designed for a group of couples can be a ton of fun, and it’s something you can invite people over regularly for.

5. Create Art & Music

Some of the most rewarding activities people can do often involve art. Art is an excellent hobby because many different ones you can pick from, but the most common choices are drawing and painting when starting a couple hobby.

Art is often believed to be an activity a person does independently, but couples can certainly have fun doing it together. It doesn’t matter if you’re great at it or not; the most important thing is that you’re enjoying each other’s company while doing it. However, you can choose to hire someone who can teach you both.

Similar to art, music is another activity that is often believed to be a solo effort, but in reality, it is more of a collaborative effort than you might think. While there are amazing pieces that are performed by a lone instrument, a duet, ensemble, or band can allow them to shine. Therefore, learning an instrument and playing together can be an excellent opportunity for you to grow side-by-side. However, if you’re not interested in committing to one, you can always take some time to sit back and relax while listening to music that you both enjoy.

6. Gardening & Home Decor

This might seem like an unconventional way to have fun at home as a couple, but if you’re going to be spending time at your house, it makes sense to do things that involve being in that environment specifically.

Some people find out that they enjoy gardening without even realizing it, and there are a few different benefits to trying out this activity. For example, it can help reduce stress and blood pressure; if you’re growing edible foods, it can encourage you to eat healthier (and save some money!), and it can help boost your mood overall. [3] If you have space at home to garden, you might be missing out on something you never thought you’d enjoy.

Lastly, there’s a pretty good chance that you live together with your partner, and decorating your home can also have similar benefits. It’s worth making your living situation look nice, and it’s something that also encourages teamwork. Cleaning can also do the same thing, and many couples do enjoy it, but it’s not for everyone – to those individuals, it will always be a chore.

Conclusion

Finding fun things to do at home as a couple can be tricky if you are used to going out and doing stuff often, but hopefully, by reading this article, you’ve found some options that can help you and your pass the time while hanging out at the house.

You don’t have to leave the house to have a good time, and in some cases, it can also allow you to become more creative with what you do, not to mention more resourceful. You might even become closer in the process.

In addition to these activities, attending couple’s counseling can also be beneficial to your relationship. This type of therapy isn’t just for those with relationship issues; it can be used to make a healthy one even stronger.

At Regain, licensed and professional therapists who specialize in relationships can help you gain the skills that you might have been missing out on, as well as reinforcing the strengths. Online therapy is convenient and affordable, and it can be a valuable asset to couples looking to improve their relationships. No relationship is 100% perfect, and there is always something that can use some fine-tuning.

Nonetheless, hopefully, you find what works for both of you so that you can continue to cherish each other’s company and have the happiest and healthiest relationship possible.

References

1. Buerger, J. (2019, September 16). If You Want to Strengthen Your Relationship, Start in the Kitchen. Retrieved from https://www.theknot.com/content/cooking-together-relationship-benefits.
2. Perrin, A. (2018, September 17). Five facts about Americans and video games. Retrieved from https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/09/17/5-facts-about-americans-and-video-games/.
3. Picard, C. (2019, April 17). Gardening Can Help With Stress and Anxiety – Here’s Why, According to a Horticultural Therapist. Retrieved from https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/health/wellness/a22109/health-benefits-gardening/.