Five Movie Dates Tips For Couples

Going out to a movie together is a common date idea for many couples. A movie can feel relaxing and enjoyable, and like a tried-and-true date option. But, after a while, you may start to feel bored of the typical movie date and want to find ways to make this popular activity feel a little more exhilarating. If you and your partner have found yourself in this situation, consider some of these tips to help you keep those movie dates alive and thriving.

Five tips for better movie dates

Mix it up

If you and your partner are beginning to tire of going on a movie date, consider a different approach. All too often, we go to the theater to see the same genre of movies time after time. One way to keep it interesting is to mix it up. Even if you don't think you will like the movie you are seeing, you can try it anyway—it might still be a lot of fun. If you are the type of couple that normally sees action movies, try a cheesy romance movie or even a horror movie. You might be surprised at how much you end up enjoying this. This kind of change of pace will likely spark conversation and give you something to dissect at the very least. And who knows, you may even realize new interests that you didn't know you had.

Make it an experience

Another approach you can try is to make your movie date a little more interesting—instead of opting for the typical night out at the theater, try to make it an experience. There are many different ways to go about this. For instance, some movie theaters now offer new services that can make things feel a little more special, like serving wine, beer, and even elaborate steak dinners. Some theaters also have balcony seats available, which could create a different mood. And many theaters often also have an arcade area, so you could arrive a bit early or stay later to take advantage of this and make a fun night of it. 

Try a double feature

Another way to get more out of your movie date is to see a double feature. There are a few instances in which this could be an option. When new movies come out in a franchise, some theaters will show the previously released movie in theaters too. Whether you are already a fan or you're just jumping on the bandwagon, this can be a fun way to switch it up when you're on a movie date. Or, the next time you plan a movie date and spot two movies that you can't decide between, you can choose both. You could try having each of you choose your movie to see and pick the movie times to correspond with seeing a double feature. This can feel like a special and more elaborate way to spend your night together. 

Go to a movie outdoors

Another way to spice up movie night is to change the setting, and one way to do this is to try a drive-in movie theater. If you have a truck or SUV, consider blowing up a mattress and bringing along some fluffy blankets and pillows. You can snuggle up and enjoy the movie together. If your town doesn't have a drive-in movie theater, you're not out of luck. You can set up an outdoor theater in a backyard. All you need is a comfy place to sit or lay, a screen or a white sheet, and a projector. To make it even more special, you could string up some lights outside. 

Make it special at home

If outdoor movies aren't your thing, you can still have a fun date at home and make it extra special. You may not always have the time, energy, or funds to go out for regular movie dates, but there are plenty of ways to have a cozy, romantic movie date at home. This can also be a good option for couples with young kids who don’t want to have to find a babysitter. To have a special movie date at home, you can prepare a huge mix of fun snacks, like popcorn, nachos, cookies, and elaborate drinks, and you can make your couch extra cozy. You could even create a fun ambiance with candles, added pillows, and tons of blankets. The location of your date often doesn't matter as much as the act of spending time with one another.

For further help in strengthening your relationship

Sometimes, movie date tips aren't the only thing you need to keep your relationship strong and interesting. If you would like additional support in strengthening your relationship, you and your partner can connect with a couples counselor for help. For many couples, making time for something like therapy can feel challenging, as you have to coordinate multiple busy schedules. With online therapy, you can meet with your therapist wherever you have internet, which may make it more convenient to schedule. 

Plus, research has demonstrated that online therapy is an effective option for improving relationship satisfaction and relationship confidence. 

Takeaway

Movie dates are a go-to date idea for many couples, but sometimes, you might want to find ways to make this popular activity a little more special. To do so, you can consider some of the ideas above, such as trying a new genre of movie, making it more of an experience, and making it special at home. For support with these and other relationship concerns, online counseling can help.