DD Personality Traits: Does Your D&D Character Reflect You?

By ReGain Editorial Team|Updated July 11, 2022
CheckedMedically Reviewed By Aaron Horn, LMFT

Dungeons and Dragons (D&D) is a fantasy tabletop role-playing game first created in 1974.  Designed by Gary Gygax and Dave Arneson, they utilized the rule system from the game Chainmail to create the fundamental rules of D&D. What made D&D unique from other storytelling or wargames is that each player can create their own character with unique personality traits; you do not have to play with a military-style character. D&D allows players to team up and enter an imaginary game world. There, characters are confronted with battles, dilemmas, daring rescues, and even treasure. As you navigate the game, your character earns experience points and can rise in levels of play.

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How Do You Create Your Character?

In D&D, you can create your character details, down to the smallest personality trait. Interestingly, all character details are important, and one person may view it as a weakness, another may see it as a strength. All personality and background characteristics reflect when it is ideal for shining at the end of the day.

To make your character, start by choosing your character’s gender. Will you have a female character, a male character, or one with an undefined gender? Maybe it will be half man, half woman. The choice is yours. You should also give your character a name. Pick something original that differentiates your character from someone else’s.

Next, define your character’s height and weight. Will they be small and round or tall and muscular? A character’s height and weight are a good starting point because you can visualize your character details. Your character might be tall. Your character might be thin. Does your character stand or crawl?

From there, each personality trait that you give your D&D character will help or hurt you in the game.

Character Personality Traits

Your character’s personality is an essential part of who your character is and what they can accomplish.

Some questions you may want to answer as you are creating the personal characteristics of your player are:

  • Will I have a female character or with any feminine character traits?
  • Will your character speak or be able to understand additional languages?
  • Will your character have an array of traits mannerisms or just a few?
  • What aspects of your character’s demeanor will be their biggest strength?
  • What gives your character an unusual power?
  • What are your character's dislikes? What is your character likes?
  • What is the primary language your character can speak?

Each traitor column determines the character's overall personality and character's extra points.

Your D&D Character’s Background is Essential

Your character’s background contains suggested personal details that will become personality traits ideals. It is important to remember that:

  • The background gives a character a hidden purpose. This can be an advantage or a disadvantage.
  • The backgrounds give a character historical significance. Past details can become future weapons.
  • A background gives character longevity.
  • A character's background describes and starts their journey leading up to their introduction to the game.
  • A character's background also allows characters to build up a sense of power or defeat.
  • The background shows the accomplishments things your character has completed or defeated.

The personality and background that your character has solidified their role in the game. It determines the character’s extra abilities that may be hidden or disguises. Their personality and background also put your character in a compelling position to win or lose.

How Personality and Background Can Make or Break You in D&D

Your character’s personal characteristics can affect the outcome of the game. Whether you have an agile character or limps and moves slowly can determine your character's fate or the campaign you are playing. The same is true about the character's dislikes and fears.

Let’s say that your player’s personality trait includes aggression. In some stories, this personality trait can be seen as a great asset in gameplay; however, in others, your character proficiency in diplomatic situations could be challenged by those with a personality and background more conducive to trust and friendly tactics.

Suggested Characteristics for Your Character

Since you can customize the categories of characteristics, you can determine the personality trait it will have, and the game can be different each time.

Here are some personality and background traits that your character may possess.


If you have this quality on your character sheet, you may have trouble communicating with others. When your characteristics reflect challenging behavior, it can be hard to maintain trust and fairness with others. You may want to consider adding suggested characteristics that are more conducive to kindness.


When you have a friendly character, your personality traits ideals bonds with most people, you are friendly, and people like talking to you. While this sounds like a great thing, it can make it seem like you can be overrun easily. Adding suggested characteristics that are bolder would improve your character’s alignment ability. It does not have to be a significant change. Adding something as simple as additional languages that your character can speak can make you seem just a bit more mysterious. These minor suggested characteristics can improve your character proficiency.

Inability to Read or Write

Reading as a character proficiency can be significant. Also, most backgrounds naturally have literacy as a natural suggested characteristic.  However, your character can change and morph as the gameplay continues. Learning how to read secretly can give your player an advantage.

Speed and Agility

The personal characteristics of speed and agility are almost always an advantage. While most would not suggest characteristics that would slow down a player’s speed and agility, there are times that slow and craftiness would be more beneficial than being fast and but inconsistent with strategic abilities.

Other Suggesting Characteristic for D&D

While the above touched on some of the basics suggested characteristics your D&D characteristics may have, your character still needs to be further developed. Do you want your character to be:

  • Trustworthy
  • Kind
  • Mean
  • Angry
  • Loyal
  • Obedient
  • A leader
  • A Thief
  • A pathological liar

Each of these categories of characteristics, while still basic, starts to shape what your character is and how they may perform in battle. Taking it a step further, what is your character’s mental frame of mind. Is he happy? Depressed? An alcoholic? An orphan?

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If your character were a real person, would you then need to seek the help of a counselor or therapist? Would they be considered a sociopath? A pathological liar? What is your character’s mental state?

How Many Personality Traits Should Your D&D Character Possess?

The rules of Dungeons and Dragons state that a character should have two personality traits. However, they can also develop and change as your gameplay knowledge matures. It is recommended that you utilize a character sheet to track your character’s changes and attributes. While you can add a touch of sarcasm to a character or transform them into a more robust version of yourself, your character is ultimately a representation of you. Whether they are what you wish you were or the person you would never be in real life is up solely your decision.

What are the Four Types of Personalities Found in D&D?

There are four main personality traits or characteristics that will make up your character: ideal, flaws, morals, and bonds. If you are new to D&D, using a personality generator to create your character is recommended. From there, you will find that there are suggested characteristics that help to develop your character beyond what the personality generator chooses.

For example, the chosen bonds represent a character’s connections to people, places, and events that you will find in the world. They connect and tie you to things from your background. The bond for your character is an essential aspect of their personality.

When you are strategizing and building your character, you will want these four traits. The component of each column determines the character’s overall self.

How Do I Make a D&D Character?

Once you know your character, you can log into the Dungeons and Dragons website and start developing your character.

However, this is not required for gameplay. If you still are unsure what components would be best for battle, you can use a character generator to start.

As you start to learn the game better, you can start using a character sheet to build your D&D character. Have fun with it and see what you can do!

Ideally, you will find a character that suits you best to win battles and points.

There are four parts to the basic rules of D&D:

Part 1:Create your character. You will find that the levels run from one to 20 and include the cleric, fighter, rogue, and wizard. There are also other options, such as playing a dwarf and elf, choosing one of the five backgrounds, and of course, the character sheets mentioned above.

Part 2: How to play the game. This will cover the three categories of gameplay: exploration, interaction, and combat.

Part 3: Magic. The rules govern how to cast a spell and what spells are available for magic-using characters and monsters. Within the game, 120 spells can be cast once you master them.

Part4: Tools for Dungeon Master. This section talks about building combat encounters and magic times.

Dungeons and Dragons can be a fun and adventuresome game. As you get to know more about it, the better the gameplay will become. Soon you will forever become immersed in D&D.

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