About me
I am a family and marriage therapist licensed in Colorado with over 40 years of experience working as Marriage and Family Therapist, mental health therapist and pastoral psychotherapist. I have worked with clients presenting a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting challenges, challenges of faith, and various levels of trauma.
My therapy style is supportive, invites personal reflection, focuses on relation to self, life, and others. I will work with individuals, couples, and families. I also work well with aging process issues -- especially senior couples and individuals. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic and rational therapy. The foundation of my therapeutic approach is systemic based therapy which empowers separating self from the multitude of external historical influences that surround us. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs.
It takes courage to seek a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards change. If you are ready to take that step, I am here to support and empower you.
I look forward to working with you!
Specialties
- Relationships
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy
- Self esteem, Motivation
Stress, Anxiety , Addictions , LGBT , Trauma and abuse , Eating disorders , Sleeping disorders , Parenting issues , Anger management , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Depression , Coping with life changes , Coaching , Read more...
Clinical approaches:
Client-Centered Therapy, Existential Therapy, Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems
Years of Experience: 45
Services offered
Messaging
Phone
Video
Licensing
CO LMFT MFT.0000105
Reviews
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Dr. Ralph Datema. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.
Dr. Datema is a knowledgeable and experienced therapist. He does not simply sit back and listen to me, he challenges me to think and examine myself on a regular basis. His feedback and responses to my inquiries have helped me to challenge the way I feel and react to situations that have normally caused me problems. I highly recommend Dr. Datema to anyone looking for truly effective counseling.
Dr. Datema has a ton of experience. My fiancé and I have really enjoyed our experience. I believe every couple can benefit from Dr. Datema’s knowledge.
Dr. Datema is a pleasure to work with. He has many years of experience and it shows. He has provided many useful tools to help in our couples therapy journey, suggested great books for us to read and is willing to tell it like is without feeling critical. I definitely recommend Dr. Datema!
Dr. Datema is very attentive and has very powerful wisdom to offer. Highly recommend.
I am writing to share my heartfelt appreciation for the exceptional care and support I received from Dr. Datema. Although I am unfortunately unable to continue therapy due to financial difficulties, I wanted to take a moment to recognize the incredible impact he has had on my mental health journey.
Dr. Datema is an outstanding therapist who demonstrates unwavering professionalism, compassion, and dedication to his clients. He has been a source of immense support for me, always creating a safe and welcoming environment where I felt heard, respected, and understood. His guidance has been invaluable in helping me navigate challenging experiences and work toward healing and personal growth.
I cannot speak highly enough of his commitment to his clients' well-being and his ability to make a genuine, positive difference in their lives. Dr. Datema is truly an asset to your team, and I hope this feedback reflects the incredible work he does every day.
Very knowledgeable. Great listener. My fiancé and I love working with him.
Dr. Datema showed incredible insight and exercised great patience during our couple's counseling sessions. I would recommend him to anyone interested in learning more about communication strategies.
Dr . Datema is very wise . He is kind and compassionate and listens intently .
Let’s just say he’s the kind of guy that helps you understand.