About me

Marriage and relationships are a wonderful thing, they can also be devastating and overwhelming depending on the health of your relationship. I would like to help create a safe space for you and your partner to express thoughts and feelings, exploring what brought you together. In working together, I will help you to feel heard and create opportunities for better understanding. Through effort and determination I will work with you to bring out your best self so that you can be a better partner. I will help you address obstacles as an individual and as a couple. i have a strong creative side and like to bring in resources about communication, bonding and individual development while custom tailoring approaches for you and your loved one. In addition to creativity, I have 13 years experience working with children, adults and their families. I have worked with all age groups and helped facilitate family and co-parenting groups after divorce. Sometimes separation or divorce is necessary but I will make every attempt to help you resolve issues before reaching that conclusion.


Specialties

  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Family conflicts
  • Trauma, Abuse
  • Parenting issues
  • Depression
Also experienced in:
Addictions , LGBT , Relationship issues , Grief , Sleeping disorders , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Coping with life changes , Compassion fatigue , Abandonment , Adoption and Foster Care , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 14

Services offered


  • Messaging

  • Phone

  • Video

Licensing

IL LCSW 149.015036


Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Loni Nolte. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.

Written on Jan 11, 2024 after therapy with Loni for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Loni is absolutely amazing

Written on Oct 11, 2023 after therapy with Loni for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Loni is just wonderful. She’s warm, caring, a great listener and asks great questions. She has a lovely disarming personality that puts me at ease and she’s very skilled at drawing out key issues / problems and helping to discuss / solve them in real time. Would highly recommend!!

Written on Jul 17, 2023 after therapy with Loni for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

She’s great

Written on May 17, 2023 after therapy with Loni for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Extremely warm and caring from the start. Has a lot of expertise in her field and knows a lot about the technical side of these apps, which I found very helpful .

Written on Apr 21, 2023 after therapy with Loni for 3 months on issues concerning relationship

Very happy with our sessions and the way she pushes us to do the work.

Written on Feb 19, 2023 after therapy with Loni for 8 months on issues concerning relationship

Recommend her 10/10 she is absolutely amazing all around!

Written on Jan 17, 2023 after therapy with Loni for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Incredibly helpful. Great at listening smd providing solutions/action items

Written on Jul 09, 2022 after therapy with Loni for 6 months on issues concerning relationship

Loni has been such an amazing part of this journey that me and my partner have been on. She is very attentive and gives great feedback on our issues. Loni always got back to us very quickly via messaging, had the best sessions over video chat. She came up with fun and easy actives for us to do during our sessions that helped us understand each other better and make our communication stronger. When we needed to dive deep into some heavy stuff she helped and guided us through it and always came out in the end positive. She has been the best and it saddens us we cannot work with her anymore due to the state of emergency that has been lifted.

Written on Jan 17, 2022 after therapy with Loni for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

So far my experience with Loni has been very positive! My partner and I entered therapy at a chaotic time (like most couples probably) and we unloaded a lot for Loni and towards each other using the messaging feature. She was able to redirect the conversations to be constructive. She's also been agile in adjusting the plan for sessions to fit our unique needs.
Most importantly, now that we have help, I have a hopeful feeling about this relationship - one that was almost extinguished when we entered therapy.
We have a long way to go but at least we have a guide who's helped people get there before.
The conversation with Loni during a video session was not threatening or intimidating. She is kind and direct. She laid out a plan for our conversations and also let me give input on how that session and following sessions would go. She offered to ask me questions or just let me talk. I wanted questions the first time. Giving me the option was considerate.
I also like that she made sure we called time about 5 minutes before the session was over, so we could wrap up and set a focus for the week.
I'm really looking forward to working with her and my partner more in therapy.

Written on Jan 16, 2022 after therapy with Loni for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

She is really good!

Work with me!