About Me

Falling in love is one of the best things we get to do in our lives. Staying in love is one of the hardest things we ever do. If you are here, then you know. I am here to help you communicate with each other about the next stage of your relationship story. My graduate training was specifically focused on relationship and family therapy, and I have over thirty years of experience supporting individuals in all types of relationships. I bring my hope and admiration for what the relationship might become to our work. At the same time, I bring a clear-headed recognition that a relationship can only work when it works for both individuals in that relationship. I will work to create the support and structure necessary to help you talk and listen to one another. You can grow through this situation. I can help.


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Family conflicts
  • Parenting issues
  • ADHD
Also experienced in:
Addictions , LGBT , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Eating disorders , Sleeping disorders , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Depression , Coping with life changes , Coaching , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy

Years of Experience: 28

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Phone

  • Video


LMFT #4412 (Expires: 2021-09-30)


Written by H.A. on Jan 12, 2021 after counseling with Lance for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Lance is a very attentive and great counselor. He has very positive recommendations that are practical to us. Highly recommend him.