About me

I am licensed therapist in California with other 3 decades of successful counseling experience working with couples. My focus is on helping my clients get through challenges that get in the way of them living their best life.

I am kind, supportive, intentional and caringly challenging in disrupting your unhelpful habits that sabotage your efforts to change your life for the better.

The specific focus is on helping you replace unhelpful or problematic habits and patterns of relating to your relational life, sex, anxiety and depression.

If you find I am a good fit for you, I will commit to three counseling sessions to get you launched in the direction you are wanting to take and then support you with future sessions to stay on course amidst the inevitable forces that will try to stall your efforts.

I do video chat only. Look for openings in my schedule.

P.S. If you are wanting my services and live outside of California or the United States, I will be your relational and mental health coach as I am a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist for people only residing in the state of California.


  • Relationships
  • Family conflicts
  • Intimacy
  • Parenting issues
  • Coping with life changes
Also experienced in:
Stress, Anxiety , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Depression , Coaching , Compassion fatigue , Abandonment , Aging and Geriatric Issues , Attachment issues , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 37

Services offered

  • Messaging

  • Video


CA LMFT 42825


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Dr. Gerald Monk. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.

Written on May 19, 2023 after therapy with Gerald for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

He really helps me paint a picture of our situation and really understand where I'm coming from!

Work with me!