About me

Mr. Spann has a unique blend of education and experience providing opportunities for those he serves to experience relational renewal, greater intimacy through improved communication, conflict resolution, and self esteem. Each partner individually and together will experience emotional and spiritual growth and change, while removing barriers to experiencing the highest levels of intimacy. These barriers may include a history of trauma, losses including (loved ones, finance, physical health), anxiety, problems with attachment, communication, persistent mental illness or substance abuse disorders. His clinical experience in outpatient, residential and hospital settings, help clients understand the relationship between the stressors on the relationship and the impact on quality of life.

Specialties: Clinical experience with clients who desire marital enrichment and premarital counseling. Improved Communication, Healthy Resolution of Conflict, and Values Clarification

Interventions include Trauma Focused CBT, Cognitive Processing Therapy and Motivational Interviewing and Mindfulness. A strength based, solution focused philosophy is a basis for the therapeutic process.
* Cognitive Processing Therapy, Trauma Focused CBT
* Mindfulness
* DBT Dialectical Behavior Therapy
* Motivation Interviewing
* Family Systems Therapy
* Session Availability Tuesday-Friday 6:30 am to 17:30 EST and other hours as agreed


Specialties

  • Addictions
  • Family conflicts
  • Trauma, Abuse
  • Grief
  • Coaching
Also experienced in:
Stress, Anxiety , Relationship issues , Intimacy-related issues , Parenting issues , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Depression , Coping with life changes , Compassion fatigue , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 29

Services offered


  • Messaging

  • Phone

  • Video

Licensing

NC LCSW C008137

OH LISW I.1700680


Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for David Spann. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.

Written on Oct 24, 2023 after therapy with David for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David is a very experienced therapist. Just started, but so far so good

Written on Sep 19, 2023 after therapy with David for 3 years and 6 months on issues concerning relationship

David is awesome! Positive and honest. Helping me see the positive in me.

Thank you David!

Written on Aug 20, 2023 after therapy with David for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David has been wonderful. He’s fair and consistent. He engages and sees things that we as a couple weren’t seeing. He is great at deciphering the “couple” code (as I call it)

Written on May 04, 2023 after therapy with David for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David is kind and patient. We are extremely pleased with this experience.

Written on Mar 15, 2023 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

Excellent therapist. Great listener and my husband really liked him too!

Written on Mar 15, 2023 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

David is a great therapist! The positive view that David was able to share with my partner and I has really helped us grow over the course of 2 months.

Written on Jan 03, 2023 after therapy with David for 3 years and 2 months on issues concerning relationship

David has helped myself and my partner grow individually and together in the last several years. He has given all the tools needed to have a happy successful life and partnership. (We still need work on using those tools) We are committed to do so!

Written on Aug 19, 2022 after therapy with David for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Estranged from a family member that I love was extremely distressing and in an effort to reconcile prompted my decision to participate in therapy which brought us to Mr Spann. My hope to resolve our problem(s) - to bring us together again happened with Mr Spann’s guidance. Heartfelt appreciation to him for helping us explore / understand the issues that affected our relationship and ultimately brought us together again. Thank you!

Written on Aug 17, 2022 after therapy with David for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

David helped my father and I repair our estranged relationship. He is a miracle worker, and I can't recommend him enough. Thank you, David. You have helped heal our family in more ways than I can articulate. God bless you.

Written on May 16, 2022 after therapy with David for 4 months on issues concerning relationship

My partner and I were entering the year in a crucial moment of our relationship. We loved each other - that was our one certainty - but the bickering was turning into arguments and we were in a state of disconnection. So I googled “online couples therapy” and we found ourselves meeting with David Spann a week later. That was 5 months ago. Today, me and my partner are in our next phase of “us”. It’s messy and beautiful and authentic and hard but most importantly, it’s open and filled with the best love and joy I’ve ever experienced. I’ve never been so content in the chaos of life. David is a game changer. He helped us navigate our feelings and thoughts individually and together and created a safe space that allowed transformation and most meaningful, for me at least, acceptance. He empowered us to choose to change our patterns and understand that there isn't a goal to reach in a partnership but rather a life to share. I’m not sure if this is the correct format of a review but just thought I could share my experience and gratitude here. 5 out of 5 stars!!! 10 out of 10 recommend to a friend or stranger!

Written on Mar 25, 2022 after therapy with David for 5 months on issues concerning relationship

David is knowledgeable and very helpful. He's kind and understanding and helps us get to the root of things that need work. My wife and I have already progressed so much. I recommend David Spann for sure.

Written on Mar 04, 2022 after therapy with David for 4 months on issues concerning relationship

David has helped our marriage from almost splitting up to now doing better than we ever have in 12 years. He helped us heal the pain of our terrible fights and gave us tools on how to communicate and work on our anger issues as a couple and individually. His Christian background helped get to the root of things as well as his vast clinical expertise in the "natural." We will always be grateful for his help.

Written on Mar 01, 2022 after therapy with David for 4 months on issues concerning relationship

David Spann speaks in depth and gets to the root of our issues and concerns. He's very passionate about what he does and wants to see us progress. It is not just a job for him, he truly cares. Thank you for all your help!

Written on Feb 05, 2022 after therapy with David for 4 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David really helped improve some of the areas we were struggling with in our relationship. In just one month we saw a huge improvement. Highly recommended.

Written on Dec 16, 2021 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

David listens and provides feedback. I like the fact that he has a Christian background and is able to assist even the most complex issue my wife and I had.

Written on Nov 04, 2021 after therapy with David for 2 years on issues concerning relationship

David continues to present tools to confront our situation in a constructive way.

Written on Sep 24, 2021 after therapy with David for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning relationship

David is truly remarkable. We have worked with many therapists over the years and none quite compare to his patience, calm, and insight. I have recommended david to many others and will continue to do so!

Written on Sep 24, 2021 after therapy with David for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning relationship

Best therapist I have ever worked with.

Written on Jul 25, 2021 after therapy with David for 1 month

My wife started individual therapy with David Spann, and after a couple weeks I was so impressed with the work she had been doing with him that we moved over to couples therapy. David’s work was instrumental in helping both of us get out of some individual funks and onto a path towards our best selves.

Written on Jun 30, 2021 after therapy with David for 1 year on issues concerning relationship

We have been so blessed to work with David Spann. Twice we have worked with him as he has helped two imperfect people live life together with curiosity and compassion. I know we could not have grown this much together on our own, and are excited to see the summits we climb with our growing strength. Thank you again David.

Written on Jun 02, 2021 after therapy with David for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David has been helpful, patient, and understanding, with good insights

Written on May 02, 2021 after therapy with David for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Dave has been exceptionally beneficial in helping me work through the stuck points I have been carrying throughout my adult life that have manifested into negative thoughts, emotions, words and actions that have hurt me and those close to me.

Written on Apr 08, 2021 after therapy with David for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

David has been great to work with. He is easy to talk, a great listener and makes us feel very comfortable. He is helping us grow and gain confidence individually and as a couple. I would highly recommend him!

Written on Mar 31, 2021 after therapy with David for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning relationship

David, was an excellent counselor and really helped us through some difficult times. He is very perceptive and is able to identify the stuck points that we constantly fall in. He helped us in communicating better and seeing the positive aspects of our relationship. I would highly recommend David.

Written on Jan 14, 2021 after therapy with David for 4 months on issues concerning relationship

David is an absolute professional. He listens and presents the treatment in a way that evokes change and real development. I can only hope that more people get to experience his expertise!

Written on Nov 14, 2020 after therapy with David for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David has been very quick to get to grips with the problems facing us and help us start finding practical solutions, whilst being encouraging

Written on Oct 27, 2020 after therapy with David for 4 months on issues concerning relationship

David has been amazing! His straight forward technique is just what we need!!

Written on Sep 18, 2020 after therapy with David for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Effective therapist. Experience and still keeping enthusiasm. His will bring to consideration one thing after another to get you unstuck.
Says thing clear and direct,
Thank You sir.

Written on Aug 19, 2020 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

David is tremendous! He is a competent counselor who can create such a positive experience from often challenging times. His direct approach with couples allows for changes and insights in the relationship in a shockingly short time frame. Not only will you leave sessions with a greater understanding of yourself, your partner, and the relationship, but you’ll also leave sessions with a confidence and practical tools to implement effective change.

Written on Aug 18, 2020 after therapy with David for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

David has been a comfort and a joy. I would highly recommend working with him.

Written on May 13, 2020 after therapy with David for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

I enjoyed my time with David. He is very blunt and to the point which I liked, he is also very wise and offers good pointers and helped me build the “best version of me” up and I am truly thankful for my time with him. I truly recommend him for anyone who is feeling stuck, he will get you unstuck and help you find the best version of yourself. I would highly recommend to a friend.

Written on Apr 22, 2020 after therapy with David for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Our counseling experience with David has been well worth it. My wife and I are very busy with family and work obligations so having the ability to do the sessions remotely at home has been extremely helpful. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend David's services or the Regain platform.

Written on Apr 02, 2020 after therapy with David for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

A couple weeks in session with David and I feel more positivity in my life and relationship than before. It's been a positive turning point that I am feeling more secure with the path we have chosen by taking a chance and going for therapy.

Written on Mar 27, 2020 after therapy with David for 10 months on issues concerning relationship

David's support of me while navigating life after leaving an abusive relationship has been invaluable. He helped me regain the confidence I lost, rebuild relationships with my kids and empowered me to take back control of my life with healthy boundaries. Thank you for helping me find the best version of myself!

Written on Sep 03, 2019 after therapy with David for 3 months on issues concerning relationship

David's counseling style was very complimentary to our needs. He was very engaging and provided us with tools to communicate with each other more effectively. He also gave us assignments to do on our own time between sessions - some individually and some together. We both have busy schedules and it never felt like a burden to find time to meet with David. He made us feel that he was vested in helping us. Overall, we are in a better place as a couple since the beginning. We had a great experience with David and highly recommend him as a counselor.

Written on Aug 31, 2019 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

I appreciate David´s professionalism, feedback, and directness. He keeps the conversation on track and is a great guide in navigating the difficult issues.

Written on Aug 24, 2019 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

David has been an incredibly valuable sounding board and advisor. He has helped my partner and me strengthen our relationship as well as deal with our individual issues relating to work and anxiety. We would wholeheartedly recommend him to any couples experiencing issues large or small.

Written on Aug 15, 2019 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

David has been a thoughtful, knowledgeable guide for my partner and I. He is experienced, respectful and intuitive. I really value his insights and the exercises he gives us individually and as a couple.

Written on Aug 06, 2019 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

We started our sessions with David regarding our relationship and focusing on our differences and problems. It was interesting how David brought out important aspects in our relationship that we had not realized before. I also had individual sessions with him and it was very much helpful. David is VERY experienced, patient, and smart! He spent more time than it was expected on each session and really cared about us and our relationship. I definitely recommend working with him.

Written on Aug 06, 2019 after therapy with David for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

What I really liked in my experience working with David was his positive-reenforcement method. It's often the case that when partners stumble upon an issue, they limit their attention to their problem and forget about things that work between them. David, with his thoughtful comments and constructive exercises, helped my partner and I to have the full picture in view while working on our differences. Overall, I highly recommend David as he is a seasoned, generous, kind, and knowledgeable therapist.

Written on May 03, 2019 after therapy with David for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David is experienced in the field and in life as well, extremely understanding, supportive, just great really! Def recommended!

Written on Apr 27, 2019 after therapy with David for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

David addresses my issues directly in a good way. I can tell he is experienced and well-versed. He handles difficult subjects with good advice and good points to think about. One of the best I have ever had in 28 years of therapy.

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