About me
The most common underlying issue I see in couples coming for counseling is an inability to communicate well. The couple tells me they have fun together and can talk with each other UNTIL the topic is a heated one. Then it feels like they aren't being heard which makes a person feel confused, frustrated, disrespected and even dismissed. This can start a revolving cycle of painful arguments in which things are said that can never be taken back.
It doesn't have to be this way! With good counseling, you can learn to really hear what your loved one is saying, not just the words but the why behind the words. Why is he so passionate (interpreted as "stubborn") about this? Why does she shut down when we try to solve a problem? There are legitimate answers to these questions that, with some help, you can discover, and that "aha" moment can transform everything! Suddenly you get it! I've seen women cry with relief that he finally understands why she keeps bringing up this or that topic. Together we can find solutions that meet the needs of both people.
Communication is key, and so is respect. Hopefully you're with someone who does sometimes challenge your thinking. If that's done respectfully, you both gain knowledge and understanding and your relationship can deepen. Without respect couples begin aggressive arguments that result in wounds that seem to never heal. With a good counselor in the room, you can learn to appreciate one another and speak respectfully to resolve issues. That old song about "Words can never harm me" simply is wrong! Words pierce the heart and cause us to back away from those who put them there.
Don't throw away what you've worked so hard to build unless you've at least tried good counseling. Then if it doesn't work, you walk away knowing you've tried your best. Otherwise, you'll drag that pain right into the next relationship, expecting more of the same. Heal where you are if at all possible. Leave if you've tried everything you can and it just doesn't work.
With online couples' counseling, I will want to work with you through video chat when both of you are in the room. As a long time counselor, I want to be able to see the non-verbal communication as well as hearing what you say. I look forward to working with you soon!
Specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationships
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem, Motivation
- Depression
Family conflicts , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Sleeping disorders , Anger management , Career difficulties , Coping with life changes , Compassion fatigue
Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Solution-Focused Therapy
Years of Experience: 43
Services offered
Messaging
Phone
Video
Licensing
FL LMHC MH3357
Reviews
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Connie Branham. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.
Connie is such an amazing therapist, great listener and great at explaining things in a way that everyone can understand. I am so grateful for her support and encouragement.
We’ve only met twice but I feel like we connected very well. It’s been eye opening to get to know my partner and myself better. Thank you, Connie!
Connie has provided a perspective that's been very insightful. She's given solid advice and resources, her availability is spot-on and she's always been open to hear both sides of the story.
Connie totally understands me and what I want to communicate with my partner. Her insights and suggestions have been greatly helpful, and we’re already on the right path to make a better partner to each other.
Connie is an incredible therapist. We love working with her. We feel heard and understood and she definitely helps us move forward.
My wife and I have begun to understand each other in new ways that have made our relationship so much stronger. We’re learned so much that we wouldn’t have learned alone and grow so much from every session. On top of that, Connie does an outstanding job understanding both of us to our core and leading engaging and helpful sessions (even when we’re in a tough moment). She’s just incredible.
Connie is very personable and easy to talk to. Validates and empathise without seeming condescending or detached. I feel like she cares while still being professional. Helps us slow down and listen to each other. Very helpful so far.
It’s super helpful, Connie is a blessing.
Connie understands what I need without much explanation. She makes it easy to apply the skills she recommends for me to learn.
Great advice, listens, cares
Connie has been life changing for me! She is very understanding and provides great expertise. I truly look forward to my weekly sessions with her. I have noticed a tremendous growth within myself over the past couple of months that we have been meeting.
Connie does a great job maximizing the time given in a session and making time for both my significant other and me equally.
Connie has the ability to figure out exactly what our issues are and helps us to understand the origin.
I've only had Connie for one session but it has been a really insightful experience so far. She was very respectful with my personal boundaries and knew not to push for more, which I really appreciate. I look forward to future sessions with her and would highly recommend Connie!
I have experienced some of the hardest times over the past year and she has always been there for me. I highly recommend her
We are so glad that we were matched with Connie. She really takes the time to understand our concerns and gives suggestions that really work well for us.