About me
A healthy, mutually nurturing relationship is not something you discover, it is something you must build and grow. I offer counseling for couples looking to begin and maintain their relatinoship in a healthy way and to keep that healthy relationship a priority for themselves.
Because relationships are challenging work, couples often find themselves dealing with a level of conflict which threatens to undermine or even destroy the relationship. I have some answers for those couples who wish to turn their conflict into meaningful intimacy. Using material from the upcoming book, "Beyond Conflict: Turning Conflict into Intimacy" couples learn how to not only resolve their current conflict, and manage future conflict, but also to use the tools for overcoming that conflict to develop stronger connection, more trust and a deeper intimacy.
Specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationships
- Grief
- Anger management
- Compassion fatigue
Addictions , Family conflicts , Trauma and abuse , Intimacy-related issues , Sleeping disorders , Parenting issues , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Depression , Coping with life changes , Coaching , ADHD , Read more...
Clinical approaches:
Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy
Years of Experience: 30
Services offered
Messaging
Phone
Video
Licensing
TX LPC 77731
Reviews
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Thomas (Thom) Wilder. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.
So far, we have found Thom's counsel to be excellent. It has given us new perspectives on the conflict in our marriage that we had not seen with other counsellors. His wisdom and humility have made us big fans of his. He's just what we prayed for. We look forward to continuing to meet with him.
My therapist listens very carefully and is very respectful and honest
Only had a few sessions so far, so this review is rather premature, but so far both my wife and I are very pleased with Thom. We feel a great connection with him, he shows a great depth of expertise and makes us feel like we're in truly good hands.
I am new but so far, I am really enjoying everything. I wouldn’t say it’s fixing my situation but definitely giving me a different perspective on how things are.
Very supportive and understanding. Helps me focus on issues and solutions and makes me understand feelings and relationships with a wider perspective
If I'm honest, I initially decided to go through the online option as a filler to hold us over until a local couples therapist had openings. I thought I would hate the zoom nature of the therapy. I was so pleasantly surprised to be totally wrong. I love comfort of being in my home. I love not having to drive 30 mins each way. More importantly, Thom has been an incredible resource for us. He has been able to refocus our frustrations and remind us that we are on the same team. He has given us a vernacular to be able to communicate how we are feeling in a productive way. Highly recommend Thom and Regain.us.