J. Alan Waiczis


About Me

Relationship issues in these difficult times are magnified by fears, financial woes, having to stay cooped-up together, and even grave loss. I am here to help. The decision to enter therapy is a courageous one: therapy requires change. You’ve come this far and that says something about you: you want a better life. I have a deep and heartfelt interest in walking the corridors of life with you, helping you find the things you want, the things you deserve, as you, and your partner or family find happiness and meaning in your journey.

I don't have a horse in your race, your success and happiness are my only goal. I have a lot of life behind me - and, am told, a keen insight as well. I can very rarely be shocked and am not shy when it comes to telling the truth. I borrow from several therapeutic models: Emotionally Focused, Mindfulness, Person Centered and Relational, CBT, and DBT.

Couples, families and individuals both in and outside the “binary” have enjoyed and benefitted from counseling and I want to more than welcome the LGBTQ community as well as those who have chosen an unorthodox lifestyle. I believe that every race, spirituality, ethnicity, sexuality or gender will find unconditional positive regard at Kind Heart.


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Grief
  • Depression
Also experienced in:
Addictions , LGBT , Family conflicts , Intimacy-related issues , Sleeping disorders , Anger management , Self esteem , Coping with life changes , Attachment Issues , Codependency , Commitment Issues , Communication Problems , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 5

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Phone

  • Video


LPC #C4837 (Expires: 2022-04-30)


Written by N.A. on Jun 08, 2021 after counseling with J. Alan for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

Alan has been a great, down to earth, no nonsense relationship guide. Meeting with him has really helped to shift the dynamic and set us up for successful communication.

Written by M.A. on Jan 16, 2021 after counseling with J. Alan for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Alan’s warmth and experience are really wonderful and supportive. He’s kind and gentle, but insightful and direct when necessary. I feel like we hit the jackpot with Alan!