Gregory Hayes

(LCSW)

About Me

Hello, thank you for considering me as a therapist to help you with couples therapy. I have an undergraduate degree in psychology and became a Licensed Clinical Social Worker after graduate school in Arizona. I have had over 20 years experience working with couples and families using a systems approach, structural family therapy. In short, the systems approach understands that if one person in a relationship is unhappy or happy for that matter, it must be viewed in context with the other member(s) of the relationship. It’s a way of thinking – success or failure of a marriage is interactional. Problems in the relationship are usually not all the fault of one just one person.
So, looking at a couple as a system of at least two people, I try to access what is going on and address road blocks and strengths impacting the relationship. For example, I may try to find out if a couple ever loved each other; it is not easy to save a marriage if neither party ever loved the other. If they once did have a wonderful relationship I would try to find out what changed and address those elements. Sometimes people grow in totally different directions, which can be just fine as long a each understands and accepts the other. If acceptance is not realistic option, then work can be done to re-balance the relationship. There are many moving parts in a relationship, and if the participants in that marital dyad are motivated then smiles can return. After all, many relationships are suffering simply due to unintentional neglect.

Specialties

  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Family conflicts
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Depression
Also experienced in:
Addictions , Relationship issues , Grief , Parenting issues , Anger management , Self esteem , Bipolar disorder , Adoption and Foster Care , Aging and Geriatric Issues , Blended Family Issues , Caregiver Issues and Stress , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 25

Services Offered


  • Messaging

  • Phone

  • Video

Licensing

LCSW #LCSW 1929 (Expires: 2021-03-31)

Reviews

Written by B.I. on Mar 01, 2021 after counseling with Gregory for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Greg was just what my wife and I needed. He quickly assessed our situation and got us on the right track. I would highly recommend him for couples counseling.

Written by C.A. on Feb 19, 2021 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

He is awesome And has a lot of experience.

Written by J.U. on Feb 17, 2021 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Greg is very wise and draws from his extensive experience. He understands the nuances of relationships and is a true expert at pin pointing what is really going on in the relationship.

Written by N.I. on Dec 07, 2020 after counseling with Gregory for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

We've had three sessions with Gregory so far and found him to be extremely knowledgeable and provides great insight.

Written by J.A. on Aug 29, 2020 after counseling with Gregory for 5 months on issues concerning relationship

Happy with Gregory

Written by D.A. on May 28, 2020 after counseling with Gregory for 5 months on issues concerning relationship

Greg has been very punctual and attentive with my encounters. Has been pleasant to work with so far, and will continue therapy with him.

Written by B.R. on Jan 12, 2020 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Gregory is very real and down to earth and has been helpful and insightful into my husband's and my relationship. He is very responsive too. He's a great counselor!

Written by R.E. on Jan 06, 2020 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Have used Gregory for couples counseling and really feel that he listens to both sides of the table and can assist in resolving two completely different viewpoints. Would recommend for couples counseling!

Written by E.L. on Oct 16, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Very happy with our sessions with Gregory so far. He is very wise & his direct style of communication works very well for my husband & I. We have learned a lot of practical things that are dramatically & quickly easing the tension in our relationship.

Written by K.A. on Oct 08, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Gregory has been very helpful and respectful. He was on time for his counseling session with us. We have been doing much better since our appointment with him.

Written by J.U. on Sep 16, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Gregory has been super supportive and helpful. He’s so welcoming and nice, you can definitely trust him and it has been so nice to have him as my counselor.

Written by J.E. on Aug 13, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

We enjoyed working with Gregory. He suggested numerous strategies/tactics that we acted on and it proved to be effective for us.

Written by J.O. on Aug 11, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Gregory is great. Really takes the time to listen, and gives great advice.

Written by S.E. on Jun 18, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 4 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Very professional & helpful especially for relationship issues. Highly recommended.

Written by K.E. on Apr 15, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 3 months on issues concerning relationship

Mr. Hayes was very helpful in trying to find ways to strengthen our relationship. He is kind and thoughtful.

Written by J.E. on Mar 25, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

I really appreciate Gregory's help. He is knowledgeable, professional, and has a knack for getting right to the heart of the issue. Thank you Gregory.

Written by G.R. on Mar 17, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

So far I believe Gregory has been unbiased and effective. I look forward to our continued work.

Written by K.E. on Feb 02, 2019 after counseling with Gregory for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Gregory is fantastic.

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