Dr. Barry Weinhold


About me

I am a PhD licensed psychologist in private practice. I current am employed as the Clinical Director of the Colorado
Institute Fro Conflict Resolution and Creative Leadership. I graduated from the University of Minnesota in Counseling Program in Counseling Psychology. I have been licensed in Colorado as a psychologist since 1976. Over many years of my work with couples, I developed a specialty for working with couples in conflict. I often was the last resort for many of the couples who came to see me for couples counseling. They had tried many other therapists or ministers, to no avail. I created a diagnostic tool to use in my first session with a couple. It always resulted in the couple developing a new perspective on their core conflicts. and learning new conflict resolution skills.
Once a couple understands the real reason they are in conflict, usually not the one they thought, they are able to begin to learn skills to resolve their conflicts. I usually can help most couples do this in 3-6 sessions. In these sessions, in addition to helping discover the underlying causes of their conflicts, I help them develop new skills they need to resolve their current conflicts.
I wrote two books on this approach to conflict resolution in couples. The first book is a textbook titled, Conflict Resolution: The Partnership Way and the second book is Intimate Combat: Conflict Resolution Skills For Couples. This book is like a workbook that couples can use to develop a better understanding of the true nature of their conflicts and the skills to resolve them. I use this book as a companion to counseling with a couple.


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Family conflicts
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Intimacy-related issues
Also experienced in:
Addictions , Grief , Parenting issues , Self esteem , Bipolar disorder , Depression , Coping with life changes , Coaching , Compassion fatigue , Aging and Geriatric Issues , Attachment Issues , Blended Family Issues , Codependency , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, Imago Relationship Therapy, Jungian Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 45

Services offered

  • Messaging

  • Phone

  • Video


CO Psychologist 483


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Dr. Barry Weinhold. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.

Written on Jan 25, 2023 after therapy with Barry for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

De. Weinhold is fantastic. I am excited to continue to work with him!

Work with me!